Sup fellas, I've been in a kinda of dilemma in a sense that i feel as if i'm kinda starting to loose my alphaness no more like my up beat personality that likes to talk to people and make people laugh. What has cause this recently was this girl we've been seeing eachother for a while and were going out. Now what i began to see is that i've started to calm down quite a bit from how i used to though i still demonstrate high value for myself around others. Though for my girl i kinda lower myself at times (not often) but she still qualifies herself to me pretty often so i'm tripping about it. My interactions are fine but not as fun or interactive as they were before. My vibe is still good were i can still radiate confidence were other girls would notice but i'm not talking to them because i feel there no need too. My question is am i hitting a different mind set or am i going to be falling into AFC mode after a while of being with this girl?

I'm confused, are you in a exclusive only relationship with this girl or are you both open to fucking other people.

If it monogamous then noone here will help you. Cheating is just douchebag AFC behaviour.

If it isn't then stop being a pussy.

You are getting to comfortable or lazy ...
- Girlfriends, wife, partner will challenge you to de rail you off your purpose in life. They want to see if you are a man of purpose by shit testing you that you don't need to stay on your purpose because you have her. Whether she is doing this consciously or sub consciously.

- Have you notice some guys who are in a relationship or married gain weight? Why do they need to exercise when they don't need to game anymore?

Therefore, know and honour your priorities by not putting your girl number 1 on the lists. It should be:
1) Your purpose in life.
2) Your girl.

- Don't fall for your emotions and feelings ... start taking action towards your goals in life. When you feel lazy ... notice it and ask your self "What is the right thing to do?"

Sincerely,

Donston