Hi I would really appreciate some advice. I posted a similar question a couple days ago, but I wanted to give an update and check to see if anyone had any advice on how to proceed.

I started seeing a new girl a few weeks ago. We’ve gone out twice now. The last time was 3 weeks ago. We met online and she is a PHD student. Before the first time we met, she kept cancelling dates and giving me the run around. I eventually said no to one of her attempts to reschedule and she called me to ask me out again. After we met and got together for coffee for the first time, she seemed really into me. Last time we met she was acting really interested (holding my hand, telling me how she would take me out in her hometown) and told me to call her as we were leaving. I made the mistake of not kissing her and I think she looked disappointed when she was leaving. Two days after our last date, I told her it was nice to see her again I wanted to get together soon. She said “sure that sounds good. I told to let me know when she was free because I know she has a busy schedule. She said “I will for sure : )” - that was 20 days ago.
Since the last time we got together, she never initiates contact with me. The only time was once at 1AM when she was drunk just to say “hiiii”. I know I should have just let her come to me since I put out the invitation to let me know when she was free. I made the mistake of texting her a couple times a week since then, but the conversation has been really short because she always says how exhausted and busy she is. She is very quick to respond to my texts and always responds with “Hiii!!!!”. However, everytime we chat all I hear is she is exhausted or so busy.
I talked to her via text 10 days ago and she was saying how it was a really busy week for her and joked she never gets a break and every week seems busy. She might be telling the truth because I know she works crazy hours as a resident. I said "I hear you" when she said how busy her week is and told her I gtg and to have a great night. I know that this was a mistake but I was frustrated and couldn’t keep my composure. I knew that I shouldn’t keep chasing her and let her initiate 70% of the time if was going to go anwhere, but I clearly wasn’t thinking.
Here is where I really messed up yesterday. I sent her a text saying “Hi, I’m sorry to bother you, I know you are really busy. Can I call you when you are free?” She wrote back an hour later saying “I’m free now! What’s up!?”. I stupidly didn’t call and just sent her a text saying “Hey! Oh, it’s not urgent. I wanted to check your schedule to see if you have time for a coffee. The best times for me would be tomorrow, or next Monday or Tuesday”. I didn’t hear back. It was a terrible way to ask her out.
How bad did I mess up? Do you think I have any chance with her? How should I proceed? Based on what I’ve learned I should just move on (which I am doing dating other girls) and let her come to me. Is she clearly not interested?

shes clearly not interested.

you did date with other girls and just move on..

there's a lot of girls dude..

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