Hey there
So me and this friend of mine go out with a group of very nice people, and there is this girl I want. The problem is that he says he wants her and several others, but after I said I wanted her, he started hiting more on her. He is kind of sticky and keeps kissing her ass, and I rarely have time with her, as my friends are frequently calling me to play stuff or jokes, so it is very hard for me to isolate
The point is, even though it is an" oniety",Ii want her, and even though I know kissing her ass isnt attractive, I am kinda afraid that he gets her by persistence or whatever. Whats should I do to get more intimate with her without looking like I am the one "chasing"?

Build a common ground.

Obviously your Bro is going to fuck this up being up her ass all the time.

Pull a robbery on him.

Say to both of them.

"Wow he must really be into you, he's used all his best stuff on you, and he did that perfectly, just think how much attention you'll be getting after your married!"

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Thanks for the response, man! Is there something else that doesnt relate to him like that? I think saying that will get the guy hurt and, considering the group, I am gonna get a little pushed. The girls in the group want to set me up with her actually, but how can I that advantage of that?

1st off I read that you basically called 'dibs' on this girl, and he went for it anyway, I wouldn't worry about him getting a little butt hurt because you out smarted him.
Give them the green light and let them. Just don't fuck it up when they do.
Does not compute. It's just sounds like an excuse to limit yourself?

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

So, your friend calls dibs on a bunch of women and doesn't actually score or game them besides being a needy AFC trying to whittle them down in order to fuck them(GBF)?

Yeah, I would side-step this asshole entirely if that's the case. You expressed interest and he was a dick enough to make a move on her for his own interest and not yours("Have you met my buddy? He's really cool!").

Your mate obviously doesn't respect you if he's doing that. It would be a different case if the girl was clearly into him, going over to him and expressing interest in him and not you. You need to do as hunter said, introduce yourself to the girl and pay her a bit more attention(Not too much so you come across as needy but enough so that she's aware you might be interested). Put your friend down, embarrass him on front of her but do it in a way that you're coming across as doing it on purpose.

The only bad thing in situations like this is if your friend likes a girl and knew her before you, says he likes her and then you go ahead and game her anyway in an obvious manner. It's completely fine if you don't pursue the girl but she pursues you and doesn't like your friend at all.

In PU you need to understand your rights and your wrongs. When someone steps on your toes to get someone else you need to take charge and stand up for your own interests.

I used to be like that when I was a total chode. If I liked a girl and she seemed to like me I wouldn't say anything and if my friend so much as expressed the slightest interest in a girl I would keep my mouth shut and be "respectful" of my friend's feelings and do nothing. You know what it got me? Fucking nothing. I was seen as weak, I felt weak and I hardly scored women because of it. Just learn that you don't have to back down in certain situations just because some AFC has fallen head over heels in love with some chick he hasn't a chance with.

Guys, I cant thank you enough. I think I didnt want to see him as a guy I needed to get in his place. I am used to that in bars but couldnt see myself doing to a "friend". What else shoul I do in the case? Like when he says something just saying "yeah, nice.Anyway..." (works in clubs)

Yeah anyway works, but take it to a new level. "I'm sorry what did you say? I was distracted when your butt plug fell on the floor!"

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.