I hope someone of you guys could help me out.
Cause see, there is a girl that I like, and i kissed her before one time. But I screwed up, we've all been there.

But she is still a little little bit interessted, but sometimes I got the impression, she dont wanna to talk to me anymore.

anyhow, I've been chatting with her today, and she was a bit sick, so I asked: "what do have, the flew?
se answered with: yeah, and throwing up and shit.
Me: hahaha well, you definatley know how to flirt, you got some more of those great pick up lines?
She: haha no, that was one of the best I got.
Me: well, if thats one of your best, you have to be a very lame girl then.

And all she answers with is: well, unfortunately..

WTF do you have to respond on that? haha, well I hope some of you guys have some usefull hints for me!

thanks!

God dammit, that actually wasn't too bad until you took it too far. You could have stopped at "you definitely know how to flirt". That's funny and would have made her smile for sure. Everything after that was just douchey. Moral of the story, though: don't neg her. Don't neg anyone. Attention everyone who is reading this post: stop fucking negging. Forever.

I'd wait a day or so and get in contact with her again. This time don't try to fit all kinds of canned pickup lines and strange techniques into the conversation. Just have a normal conversation like normal people. I don't know what you're trying to achieve with her but if you're looking to meet up again, take care of that the next time you contact her too. Remember, there's a huge difference between being confident and being an asshole. Confident people can still be extremely nice and humble.

thanks man, that's definately helpfull! you are right, I actually dont neg at all, but I just tought it was the way to play the game

moral is just to stay yourself I guess

Well, I answered and said: haha sorry, that was a bit mean. But you aren't I insaulted are you?
She replied with: nope

I guess I can pretty well foret it now? Do I just have to let her go, and maybe focus on a new chance?

the next time you have to be careful to not confuse an insult with a neg

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Yeah, that's why I said not to mention it or anything. You just drew attention to the fact that you were a dick instead of giving her a day to cool off so you can start anew tomorrow.

The only reason I would neg is if a girl is acting too high maintenance for who she really is, and I use it to get her out of her shell a little bit. If you can get around negging, I think it is better but if you can the girl are on the same page, there's no harm in teasing her by telling her that she blinks a lot, or that her nose wiggles when she laughs or somethin along those lines I think.
Snarg what are your thoughts on this?

That's definitely the intended origin of negging, but the problem is, it's really hard to pull off without ruining everything entirely. I think it's a lot more playful and fun if you just tease her lightly, like you said.

If her purse is in the chair you want to sit in tell her "That's my chair."

and what to do if she responds curtly?
I mean I ask her questions all the time, and all she does is simply answer them.
And when I asked her if she was still single and if she would like to go out with me, she said: haha yes I'm still single but I'm sooooo busy at the moment.
It isn't very obvious for me if that's a yes no or maybe hahaha.

Damnit I hate this shit, one day I will look to all those conversations and laugh at myself

Her response translates to "yes I'm single, and I have no interested in you filling that void".

That's why it's important not to be so jumpy when it comes to asking her out like that. Don't ask if she's single. Don't vaguely ask her out "sometime". Give her an exact day, time, and place. Lead her. Fuck all the other details. You can't control them anyway.

We'll oke, so I just have to let this one go you think?

Yes.