Ok guys, I'm a bit confused now...

By watching the PUA's channels on youtube I thought that this were essentially the steps a guy has to do to manage to have a girl:

1)Overcome approach anxiety
2)Open a conversation
3)Make her feel confortable
4)Make her understand your intensions and make her feel confortable with it
5)Kino escalation
6)k-close/f-close

(This is of course NOT all what you have to do, but the (pretty much) simplyfied guideline I made for myself)

Am I wrong on something here? Cause I thought that pretty every pua was agreeing with this, but apparently not everyone here does... I'd like to have some suggestion for you guys on it...

PS: I made this kind of guideline for helping me to start with pickup and semplify things. I don't expect it to be perfect

You gotta get female-to-male attraction and male-to-female attraction in there somewhere. It's important to establish both before you worry about making her feel comfortable. Also, kino escalation comes after mutual attraction but before comfort.

How can you escalate if she isn't confortable with it?

Take things slow and work her up, then escalate again. If she's still not comfortable you may be doing something wrong. I think a crucial step most guys are missing in their game is building rapport. You should check out Kezia Nobels Deep Connection DVD and it talks about a method called the Iceberg in order to build rapport, that was a game changer for me.

It helped me to place pickup into certain steps when I first started HOWEVER, try not to go about it so analytically like I did. The more you read and study then the more you will realize that being a PUA is an art.

I'm going to get some information on that. Thanks!