OK met a really cute Brazilian girl who was with an old friend. Had good convo, felt like I was getting IOIs. So she had to leave the bar early, and my friend suggests I walk her to her car. So I did and I know I should have asked her for her number, but like a bitch I didn't.

Anyway I decide to add her on FB and see what happens. I met her on Sunday the 26th, she accepted on Thursday 30th. So far I haven't messaged her, but I'd like to.

So here's my question. I know I've already acted like an AFC by not getting her number and going the FB route, but she did accept my request. So I'd like to message her and see if I can get her to meet me, how should I approach it? Any advice is greatly appreciated.

I would go like with text messaging via phone. Just drop her a short very funny message with an insider about the evening you met and wait for here response. Dont go for a date to early. You have to fresh up your connection. Just casual funny stuff in the first place. After sometime tell her how you hate messaging via facebook and go for the #. I think its important to start conversation over the phone because its way more personal. But dont ask her for a date on first call, save it for the second call.

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For future reference I would have told her this, "Woah, I only just met you I'm not going to give you my FaceBook account yet." maybe even playfully joke with her and say "I know how you girls are, you're going to snoop through all my photos, etc. I'm not ready for that."

A couple of points
*You could have told her you don't have a FaceBook
*I guarantee that girl is going to snoop through all your photos, etc. lol
*What I have done that has helped me in the past is the get a girls email and after I've got it I have been able to set up dates that way - of course she knew my intention prior to me emailing her though.

^^misread your previous post due to tierdness haha. You could do what the gentlemen suggested above, it's worth a shot.
Personally - I'd move on.
A tip may be to get in the right frame of mind and know what you're after BEFORE you approach, that way you know that you can remember to ask for a number at the end of the night, or kiss close, or whatever you know?

Ok guys thanks. I agree 100% about being in the right frame of mind. I think that's a frequent problem for me, not focusing on the close and just fluff, fluff, fluff. Anyways I'm going to try dropping a message in her box (no pun intended) and see what happens. I'll update either way.