(This probably should be moved to General Pickup, IDK?)

Let's discuss this.

If you tell a girl you like her (not love) too early into a relationship, is there any way to recover from a bad response (ie. LJBF, etc)?

This one girl fell for me completely... we finally had sex and she said it was the best she's ever had. A few days after I told her I liked her and she told me she wants to stop seeing me, because she doesn't feel the same way (the text before she was saying how great I was). Typical case.

I pretty much told her the truth: I'm not going to give her the satisfaction to be my friend. I like her, but I'm not in love with her. I just like spending time with her, and if she doesn't feel the same way, then I will replace her sooner than later, because my options are open and I know my value.

I'm cutting contact with her. If she texts me first, then I will text her back. If not, then goodbye. Is there any other ways to go about this? I know nothing is ever 100%, but what has worked for you and what has not?

That was good except for the last bit. You're high value you shouldn't need to actively prove it. Just seems bitchy to add in that you'll replace her.

do not tell her that you like her. instead ask her to tell you that she likes you. if you go out with her isn't it by itself means that you like her? by saying it it makes her value more than yours in you. your value for her must me always higher than her value for you. otherwise why does she need you?

if she fell for u completely why doesn't she like you??? don't get it.

Maybe she's just not ready for a commitment... and then you gotta think to yourself... what's wrong with just fucking her?

I mean if you're not tied to a relationship now... why not just fuck her while you're looking for another girl to be more serious with???

If you pull away she'll probably come back texting you... but you need to know what you want. If you are really caught up wanting to have something deeper than leave her where she is.... but if she's worth the meaningless sex then why not just have some fun?

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Why would you tell her you like her after you have sex with her?

If you have sex with a girl... It's pretty fucking obvious that you like her.

What you did is turned into a needy little bitch... You screwed up.

Now GFTOW.

Tough love, huh? Don't be a cunt to strangers.

What happened is that we did MDMA and the chemical love tricked me into thinking it was real... I wouldn't make such a rookie mistake normally.

She just wanted to be fuck buddies and I wanted to be exclusive... she told me i'm too much of an alpha male to be in a relationship with her... she wants a little beta bitch, like she is used to.

My value is high with her, I think I just gave her too much power too quickly so i'm easing off. She said the sex was the best she had... and I know it was... I fucked her for an hour like some kind of porn movie... Choking her, pulling her hair... I'm a grappler, so I had my way.

She also said im the only guy she loves to text because I get her weird sense of humor and that i'm just really interesting as a person. I have confidence like no other man i've met. It isn't this faux confidence either.

Satisfaction is the death of desire. When you realize you don't have something like you thought you did... you start chasing it. I truly believe she will miss me once she sees
me being successful with other women.

I have a work party coming up and I work with some beautiful women... she will be there. My plan is to ignore her for the night, chat with the other girls, and when she is with a guy dancing... just walk up and kiss her like I own her and walk away.

I would just move on but it feels like unfinished business and I love the chase.

Casanova said something like: "Fools tell they like a girl. What you need to do is just imply." Not the exact translated into English words but the message is close.

Now the solution.

When a girl REALLY enjoyed a good fuck with you, she'll keep coming back for more. That's the best and most truthful feedback there is than girls telling you you're great in bed. A girl will call in sick for work just so you could fuck her. She's going to break her Sunday mass routine just to spend time with you as you repeatedly bring her to multiple orgasmic Nirvana. She'll volunteer to clean your apartment or cook your meals just so she can get closer to your dick and hopefully, fuck her again.

You get the idea. If you're great in bed, a woman will move heaven and earth just for the opportunity to fuck your dick.

To test if she still wants a good fuck, bait her to come near you by displaying subtle sexual cues. When she approaches you first (in this particular case since you already fucked her, she has to approach you first so you condition her mind that she's the one who likes you more), then sexually escalate ad infinitum until you bang her again.

When a girl does not come back for more good fucking, then she just made up a lie that you're great in bed to make you feel good.

If that's the case, move on and fuck ten other woman PLUS fix your bedroom skills.

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Thanks for the advice.

We high-fived after sex and she told me again after she LJBF'd me. I don't think she was lying... she has only been with 4 guys including me... and they were all very young and skinny beta boys.

Hey guys, back with an update.

I laid off for a while, and ended up injuring my lower back doing some boxing... I was texting her from the hospital, apologizing for hurting her feelings (telling her to get lost for rejecting me), while still keeping the banter playful. She told me it didn't matter any more and was more concerned about how I was doing. I thought this was super sweet of her... I ended up breaking the conversation off on a good note. Made a joke and told her I'd see her at work.

A few days later... I decided to text her again. I'm an artist, so I sent her a picture over text of a caricature I drew of her with a caption that referenced an inside joke we have. We talked back and forth and eventually I made a light-hearted reference to being a player... The conversation got nasty, very quickly. She took huge offense and started getting snappy with me when I brushed off what she said and made a sexual joke. I told her to stop being fucking rude and she instantly apologized and told me not to be mad. I told her I'd see her at work and that I didn't want to argue with her like we were some married couple. At this point, I thought everything I had worked for was over...

So, two nights ago... I decide to call her. I wanted to settle this like an adult and decided to go against every rule of PUA. I told her how I felt (again... but this time over the phone) and was ready to end it on a good note. I was fucking nervous and high on painkillers... but I did it anyways:

I told her when I first started talking to her, I was just going to hit it and quit it ... Then somewhere along the way, when we did MDMA together ... I really started appreciating her as a person, and I felt like we understand each other so well. I told her that for the first time in a long time... she made me want to quit the game. I mentioned that I knew how she felt already, but that I wanted to leave it out on the table and that it was good hanging out with her and that it's probably best we don't talk. I did most of the talking, but she was very understanding ... she kept complimenting random things about me, out of the blue, and told me that she didn't want to 'not see me' forever and that she wanted to hang out before I went to Europe for a month. I mentioned that I was considering Alberta to go to the oil fields, and she kept trying to convince me not to go, subtly. We talked for two hours after that... just about random shit and eventually I ended the conversation. She asked me if we could still talk, and I said... Yes, but not as much as before. And if she wants to talk, she can message me... for obvious reasons.

Then I saw her yesterday at work, when I got off. She started work as I was getting off. I was cordial with her and said "Hello" and kept shooting the shit with the other employees in the staff room. Later, I caught her downstairs on the phone... trying to call a taxi for a customer. I touched the small of her back, as I approached from behind, and we stared into each others eyes deeply for a few seconds... I could feel the sexual tension between us. She asked me to stay with her while she waited to call a taxi... I mouthed "No", as I slowly started to back pedal. She had a flustered look in her eye and gave me a smile and called me a jerk. Her boss started giving me shit for talking to her while she's working and I left the building. Before I left, I quickly mentioned that she should check her jacket pocket... I left her a surprise. (The caricature that I drew her - on the back, I wrote: People come and go like the tides. Some are easily forgotten. Others completely fuck up third world countries and displace millions. I like to think I'm a show stopper... You're cool too... I guess)

This morning, I wake up and see that she liked a picture of mine on Instagram. Heh. Well, the party is on Monday and I can feel that we're going to get with each other then. Should be a good night.

I'm starting to realize that the most important thing about picking up girls is the inner game... Having REAL confidence. It doesn't matter if you tell a girl you like her - it doesn't matter what you say or do, as long as you maintain the frame and keep your confidence around her... she will dig it. You don't have to be emotionally unavailable to be an alpha male... live a real fucking life and allow yourself to FEEL. That's what it means to be a human being.