sup fellas, so tonight i went to a party. and was enjoying myself and i come across an old "friend" of mine back in highschool we had been hanging out with eachother for like 3 years and since i went to college i havn't seen her in around a year or so. Basically i helped her get her drunk friend in her truck and we dropped her off. We started heading back to the party (so she could drop me off) And we start talking and she starts talking about her ex and i got her to talk about her sexual experiences and stuff the topic was getting pretty heated and basically i closed but after she said i had to go and in a very serous way (I didn't want push it) she said she didn't want loose what we "had" honestly there wasn't much in our friendship anyway. now she messaged me on face book and sounded mad saying don't do that again. Then an hour and a half later she said "why do that tonight" to me she sounds mad and confused. I was thinking of not messaging her at all though I want to know how far i can get from getting out of the friendzone. Any tips? should i message her back or leave it alone?

From a girl's pov she's probably of the mind, "so and so kissed me, can you believe that " or however girlfriends talk. If you want to come out of the friendzone, I'd probably smooth things over since she seems upset about the situation and get her to view you as desirable. I read a good neg a year or so ago that called girls by their last name, strips femininity and makes them feel like one of the guys. Use Facebook to your advantage girls, we stalk that shit. Post pictures of you having fun, with pretty girls, make her feel like you're not about her anymore. It becomes psychological warfare where she wants to compete. Hang out with her, dhv, PP, you should be able to get out. Especially if you guys haven't spoken in a while and weren't particularly close. Good on you for taking the horrendous talk about the ex and elevating it to sexual experience.

Honestly, sounds like too much work for me Lol, but every once in a while the challenge is fun. Best of luck!

Ya it's a challenge but i want to become a master escape artist of the friendzone I'll do but if i just live my life and just enjoy it. And she see's that then she'll probably want to talk more but hey if it doesn't work out i don't really mind.