Long distance BS ??? (Girl needs advice)



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PostPosted: Wed Jan 29, 2014 2:59 am 
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Used to work with a guy for about a year. I'm 19 and he's 25. Turned out that he somewhat liked me .(For some part of that time he was in a relationship that soon ended) He would compliment me and try to get my attention any time he could. He asked me to go for a drink with him a few times and finally I agreed. After we started texting and hanging out, he said that he feels good with me and all the shit that comes with it. But he had to move to a different city (not too far) to study for about 2 years. Instead of figuring something out he just stopped talking to me. About 3 months later he messaged me and was all sorry for being such a dick. Said that he shouldn't have done that and stuff like that. We started texting again but haven't had a chance to meet. I felt like he didn't have time for me in his life because it seemed that he didn't have time to talk to me, EVER! I tried to fight with him but that didn't work out but after that conversation I stopped texting him and he did the same. After a bit I removed him on facebook and decided to forget. After about a month he texted me saying that he didn't like the way things fell apart between us. He was mad when he saw that I removed him on FB and he said that he tried to forget me but he couldn't. I did tell him that i felt like he doesn't have time for me, he said he gets where I'm coming from but that wasn't the case.(He never really explained what the case was) We are still texting but he is acting the same way as before and I'm getting mad about it. Sooo he says he misses me but his actions show the opposite. The questions are: What is going through his mind??! and What are the results he is wanting to get with actions like that??


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PostPosted: Wed Jan 29, 2014 3:08 am 
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He likes you.

He wants to meet you sometime in the future.

Most importantly he wants the emotional stability of having at least one woman in his life he can take comfort from. He's probably not getting along all too well in his new city and probably lonely. You were the last one he felt close to and so he turned to you when he felt vulnerable and alone for the emotional comfort simply talking to you gave him.


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