Quick question about how to build momentum when approaching girls. Basically one of my biggest sticking points is the approach. AA builds and builds until I end up saying and doing nothing. After spending some time with one of my mates I've realized my issue may be about not having any momentum.

One of the ideas he suggested was hi fiving girls when you walk past them, no conversation, no pressure to get a number you just hi five them and keep walking. I didn't notice it at first but when you string a few of these micro interactions together it builds momentum and you feel more prepared to take bigger and bigger risks. Start with a hi five, build up to a conversation and before you know it you're in a threesome.

Anyways, I wanted to ask if anyone had any ideas that I could use when I go out or when I go online to try and build up some momentum?

What you are doing works... Start off slow then work your way up...

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I have to return some videotapes...

i can't listen to this boring lecture

Hmm, its definitely an interesting video, I have to admit that I never really thought about working on my mindset but I guess that when I think about going out there and trying to warm up it is all about getting into the right mindset.

Thanks for the advice, I appreciate it.