Guys,

I gamed a girl at a bar last night. Her & I were both drunk, but not absolutely hammered.
Took her back to my place, where we watched a film, lots of kino, kissing. She left my place around 4am.
I texted her today with a view to hanging out again. She's replied saying:

"You should be aware that last night I had bad judgment. I had a great time and would love to hang out again, but I have a boyfriend and probably shouldn't have come back with you. So I understand if you don't want to..."

Sounds like guilt/buyer's remorse. What would you advise me to do fellas?

I have other girls on my radar, so no big deal if this one doesn't work out. But I WOULD like to see her again, I just fear I'm friendzoned now...

Thoughts? Cheers guys!

We can't tell you what to do. You can either tell her that if her boyfriend deserved her last night wouldn't have happened, or you can say that you'd rather not get involved. The choice is up to you.

My personal favorite response when a girl says she has a bf is oh ya how long have you had that problem for? I saw that on a video I forget who's vid though. I've tried it a few times always get a positive response and its the pergect response if the girls just shit testing you.

Play it cool. Ignore the part of her comment about the boyfriend entirely. Let her know you had fun and set something up for a few days from now. Make it something a little lighter at first (so don't directly ask her to come to your place right off the bat), then you can ramp it up and do something more exciting that gives you an opportunity for keno. Fact is, she's clearly into you or this wouldn't have happened to begin with. But I think you know that already, so go for the kill.
I don't know what that's supposed to solve...

Guys,

Thanks for the feedback!

I actually texted her before having read your advice on here. She told me she'd like to hang out, told me when she was free etc. I said we should hang out on Friday afternoon/evening, and when she asked where we were gonna meet, I told her to come to my place. I actually suspected she may have refused, but she said something like "Yeah, sounds great!"

This "situation" strikes me as a little bit strange. Looking at her photos, statuses etc, she's clearly very into her boyfriend. But I THINK (??) she's into me too, as she seems motivated to hang out...
(Her & I are in France and her boyfriend is back in the USA, by the way).

Not gonna overthink this too much, and just go with it!

Thoughts?

Cheers fellas!

A lot of times girls have guys lined up they break up with one guy move right on to the next. A girl has a bf its not going well she starts seeing another guy breaks up with her bf and transistions right into a new relationship. That could be what's going on here or it could be she's not happy with her bf and is coming to you as her source of tempory happiness. Hang out with her then you'll know better.

Bullseye. This man is 100% correct.