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Look, you just tell her where your boundaries are and just get to the point where you tell her look that's not what I am comfortable with. That's pretty much it communicate with your girlfriend. What do you expect pick up to help you with here?

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Other MPUA's are going to kill me for giving out the secrets I know for free on this forum.
So don't tell your friends what I am about to tell you, ok?

I know the typical PUA strategy for orbiters is to not give a shit if they are friend zone guys who want to get in her pants. But one of these is an ex, one she has hung out with one on one and she knows he wants more than friends, and the other send her a naked pic for cripes sake without an established friendship but continued to entertain his conversations

I just don't want to be CONTROLLING or come off as insecure, even tho my girl took some of what she said during this convo as insecure and accuses herself of this lol

to me there is a big difference between being like "who is that guy you are texting! are you seeing him!"

versus

"I expect my girlfriend to say "I have a boyfriend" when a guy who isn't friends with her texts her or an ex communicates with her in a way yours did, I would hold myself to the same standard with chicks, do you agree? We can continue from here if we agree, if not then maybe we aren't right for each other."

Stop over-thinking and just communicate what you want. Don't be scared, be yourself and stop being scared by doing anything wrong, if you can't stand up for yourself you wont ever be truly happy.

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Other MPUA's are going to kill me for giving out the secrets I know for free on this forum.
So don't tell your friends what I am about to tell you, ok?

I mean, I know she would never see me as controlling as far as the ex boyfriend or the kid who sent her nudes, because frankly those are reasonable boundaries of respect.

But I am uncertain in regards to the "my best friend's boyfriend's friends who I semi-dated who I refer to as that kid, which implies he is not a friend of mine truly" and "my best friend's boyfriend's friend who I also refer to as that kid texted me"



She did ask if I trusted her and if I would look at her phone, and I pushed the phone away and I said I trust you 100 percent, it is just a respect thing.