I have been doing heavy online gaming lately, mostly on OKC. Many girls who I meet are from different cities. Apart from attraction and comfort, I sexualize my game, and focus on the girls that are still there, i.e. that want to fuck. But I have the logistics problem. I'd like to close them on the first time we meet, and here are some obstacles that come into my way:
- I have to go to their city, because they don't have money, are scared, parents thing... and generally it's more convenient for them. With girls who are 25+, this is not that big issue and I can persuade them, but with 18 and 19 year old, it is not that easy.
- They usually live with their parents, and when I ask if she can send them away for a few hours, girls say No. Also, getting a hotel room is expensive for me and puts too much pressure on her.
- Her morals and way of thinking. They want to fuck, but on the second or third date.
This is very frustrating because I have many girls like this, I don't get sex from them, but they still demand my resources, i.e. time to text them, and time to see them. I can only see them during weekends because of my job, and to go to a different city and not get laid, it sucks. I don't get tooled by this girls, they are interested, I just need to make some changes to tweak this around, and I am looking forward to hearing some ideas.
Thanks!

You should focus your energy and resources on chicks that are within the area of your reach. You have only 24 hours in a day, so why waste them texting girls that will require great efforts to meet and seal the deal when you can use your time with girls from your city? I gather you are not on an unlimited budget to finance those weekend trips, so make it a rule for yourself to date within a 20 mile radius from your home. That would probably mean stepping out of the house and giving OKC and POF a break and going to a club to sarge "in front of a live audience"...

Thanks for the response, but it is not very useful and related to the subject. You don't know if I do club game and OKC girls from my city. Also you don't know my motivation for going for girls from different cities. But that's not the point here. If you have some useful ideas that I could use here, I'm happy to hear them.

Man, it wasn't my intention to berate you, your point is valid, so now I will try to give you some useful answers... here goes...

First of all, in this situation, logistics are a bitch. Even if your targets are DTF, you still need a place to go. If their place is off limits and you don't want to book a hotel room, you could try using your car, henceforth called "your mobile bedroom". Scout the locations in advance, know where you will be taking her and as well find a quiet place not far where you can park the mobile bedroom. Not all targets will be willing to perform under the circumstances, though...

Preparations in terms of escalation are as well important. Sexualise communication and screen targets that are comfortable with the topic. Don't fall into the relationship talk, make it obvious that you are looking for a casual thing; this will weed out the targets that are looking for a boyfriend. When you meet in person, escalate from the start (I will PM you some posts I have written for another site on the topics of One night stands and Sexual escalation). You could also play two targets in the same city at the same time and have a back-up ready in case the main target is getting cold feet. You could as well book a hotel room without credit card guarantee and if there's no point in going to the hotel, just don't show up. No harm done.

Hope this hints (+ the links in the PM) will help... Good luck!