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PostPosted: Sat Oct 12, 2013 10:12 am 
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A little about me: I'm experienced with girls and I'm not a beta. I have a high sense of humor (English is not my first language) and I've hooked up with dozens of girls at university. I'm only 20 and I graduated around 4 months ago and found a job.

Now you are probably asking what is the problem that I want to solve/discuss.
When I was in university, I had a HUGE social circle and I know well over 1000 people at university. I was one of those well known people. I have all my university friends on facebook and around 300 on my SPAM. The problem is, I started gaming girls I was friends with at university. The girls I used to strike only 5 minute conversations with, not more. These girls were just my friends, nothing more, no escalation, no sexual talk, no flirting!

What I'm doing now is talking to them on facebook, taking their numbers, and asking them out. I've had luck with over 10 numbers in the last few days and they ALL agreed to go out whenever I want them to. I usually say "We're going out next week, and I don't take no's for an answer". And they usually reply with "I'll be in X from Wednesday to Saturday, I'll see you during those times" and other replies like "Yes! we should anytime you like".

MAIN PROBLEM: I have never had any Kino with these chicks, wouldn't it be awkward to take them out and start doing kino on them? What if they wanted to come just so that we update each other on our lives and not date?

I just want to have some fun. I mean many of them are HB8 and above and I'd love to sleep with them.

I like sharing advice, whether giving it or receiving it, so I'm open for all opinions even if they are negative.

Thanks in advance


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PostPosted: Sat Oct 12, 2013 1:37 pm 
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This is just my opinion but it might help you to think more alpha like or will:
If what you just said is true about having over 1000 friends from University and you've dated over dozens of girls there. I'd say those girls you are talking to now must know how fucking alpha you were in university. You were clearly talked about around the university and word must have gone back to them so you have already build up this alpha reputation. You have probably build this reputation that you have dated loads of other girls which has probably effected why some of the other girls won't meet up with you because they might think you are going to fuck them and chuck them and the girls you are meeting now probably already know what you are after and most probably want it but they are waiting for you to escalate to that. Are they meeting up with you individually, like now with any of their friends?

I hope you can understand what I have said and I wish you luck but I have no doubt that you will have no problem with this "Friendzone."

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PostPosted: Sat Oct 12, 2013 4:40 pm 
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This is just my opinion but it might help you to think more alpha like or will:
If what you just said is true about having over 1000 friends from University and you've dated over dozens of girls there. I'd say those girls you are talking to now must know how fucking alpha you were in university. You were clearly talked about around the university and word must have gone back to them so you have already build up this alpha reputation. You have probably build this reputation that you have dated loads of other girls which has probably effected why some of the other girls won't meet up with you because they might think you are going to fuck them and chuck them and the girls you are meeting now probably already know what you are after and most probably want it but they are waiting for you to escalate to that. Are they meeting up with you individually, like now with any of their friends?

I hope you can understand what I have said and I wish you luck but I have no doubt that you will have no problem with this "Friendzone."
I see your point.
Yes, they are meeting with me individually, but I'll always run into friends at any place in the city I'm living in.
The problem is, I don't want to lose them as friends if I failed in escalating, but I want to give it a shot at the same time.


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PostPosted: Mon Oct 14, 2013 4:58 am 
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This is just my opinion but it might help you to think more alpha like or will:
If what you just said is true about having over 1000 friends from University and you've dated over dozens of girls there. I'd say those girls you are talking to now must know how fucking alpha you were in university. You were clearly talked about around the university and word must have gone back to them so you have already build up this alpha reputation. You have probably build this reputation that you have dated loads of other girls which has probably effected why some of the other girls won't meet up with you because they might think you are going to fuck them and chuck them and the girls you are meeting now probably already know what you are after and most probably want it but they are waiting for you to escalate to that. Are they meeting up with you individually, like now with any of their friends?

I hope you can understand what I have said and I wish you luck but I have no doubt that you will have no problem with this "Friendzone."
I see your point.
Yes, they are meeting with me individually, but I'll always run into friends at any place in the city I'm living in.
The problem is, I don't want to lose them as friends if I failed in escalating, but I want to give it a shot at the same time.

No risk, no reward

sometimes you just have to take a gamble and go for it. Don't take those opportunities for granted because one day you may not even have the chance to take that risk anymore because the ship has sailed.

I've been trying to find opportunities to get dates with girls for a while now but I always am a victim of bad timing or flat out bad luck. The point is if you have the opportunity to get something done.... TAKE IT! I know I will when I finally have a good chance to get at a girl


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 25, 2014 4:30 pm 
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I agree SF__Giants88. We simply do not have enough time to think what was and what could be and to think what the consequences are. I can guarantee that eventually you will never see a majority of those girls again and both you and them will just be another chapter in the story in which we call "life." So this is what you should do and which I think you have already caught on; try hooking up with them. Don't beat around the bush with that shit. I can guarantee that at least one will hook up with you, and I think you know that too. Go with the flow of things, relax and enjoy what you have and most importantly: go at your pace vice versa with whoever you meet as well.

I wish you luck in your endeavours and Happy Gaming!

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