Now, starting from the beginning. I am trying hard to game a girl at work. She has flaked before, so I put the ball in her court. A few days ago I was showing how my new phone links together several pieces of information (phone number, e-mail, facebook bio, etc.) creating a kind of a file on every person on my adress book. In a desperate atempt to DHV I had previously placed the hottest girls I know on the favourites category, leaving her out. Then I was like "Oh, I haven't put you in the favourites folder yet. But let's check this girl, for exemple" Clicked on the hottest girl with the most interesting job (barmaid at a night club) "see, all her contact information, bio and work history. This is so practical". Guess it worked, since she asked about all the hot girls I know (some are simple facebook girls who accept anyone and I added them just to DHV my profile) and what they are to me. I just gave her a vague answer.

Today, I was texting with a girl I have on a long fuse. Long story: try-again-or-wait-it-out-vt173664.html short story: she is out of town, has a BF so I just send her a ping every couple of weeks or once a month to let her know I'm still here. This is the text convo:

Me: "Put down your phone and pay attention to class"
HB: "Haha. How do you know? I am so bored!"
Me: "Wich class are you on?"
HB: "Geography. What the hell is a mounted, anyway?" On my mother tongue the word for effectively being mounted is also used for a kind of agrarian terrain.
Me: "Under normal circunstances it's a happy guy. In the jail shower it's a poor bastard"
HB: "LLLOOOOOOLLL I just bursted laughing in the middle of the class! You almost got me kicked out!"
Me: "You should have known I am a bad influence. What are you doing later? I'm gonna rob an armored truck and my crew is one man short. You do know how to use an AR, right?"
HB: "To shoot you! I almost peed myself!"
Me: "Really? I gave you all those neck and shoulder massages when we were together and all I had to do to "make you wet" is tell a joke? That was time well spent..."
HB "Stop it! But one of your massages would be great right now!"

By that time one of the bosses at our work walked by and asked "French, are you texting a girl?" "Yes I am, sir." "No way! let me see it!" I showed him the message chain and he has like "You're going places, kid! Keep like that and you're going far!"

Now aparently, he told my boss about that in front of my target (the workplace girl), because a few minutes later my boss wanted to see the text chain (and aproved it) and at break time my target asked me if I was offering massages to a girl and talking about making her wet. I did not reveal much, she insisted on seeing the texts, I did not show them. And now she was the one who asked me to be her +1 on her friend's party next fryday.

DHV, be attractive and be more sexual: Done.

Next step: Isolate-Escalate-Close.

Since she flaked I have kept things at the work level with a few friendly chats when the oportunity presents. It's not like I go after her, but I do not walk away when I see her either. Any tips on how to proceed? I mean, give her more atention? Become colder? Or keep doing the same stuff?