despite going out a lot i still have big time deficiencies...my inner nice guy wakes up at times and i have realized this shit makes people take advantage of me...there was this chick she convinced me big time that she can only be friend to me because she is married..i am not a dumb guy so despite having all the information about her i believed that she was actually married..i think it was a case of my feelings overuling my logic.so me and her would go out and normally she came with another chick..so after a few 3 to 4 meetings( i met her online) i am somehow convinced that she is not actually married...i am certain she is not and a few guys have done and she sleeps around i am told...why would a chick who sleeps around friendzone me? how fucking weak am i? i feel dumb and used cause this girl emotionally manipulated and conned me...i feel shit and worthless..this girl would say shit like 'if i wasn't married i would be yours' i would then tell her how i feel sorry about her situation...now that i know she sleeps around and is a manipulative liar how should i handle next time she contacts me?...i wont let her get away with it...i think she deserved to be treated in the worst possible manner...i am thinking of fucking her and then giving her radio silence...how do i achieve that?

Just let it go, you're only weak if you let that shit get to you.

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Imdabes!

But that hurts a lot man...well nietziche said 'that which does not kill us makes us stronger ' so let's see...i think this experience will completely destroy the inner nice guy in me...it is really humbling...i mean i would try to touch this chick and she would go 'hey i am married' lol and another guy will just do her..incredible and clearly proves girls apply double standards.

Here's what you do. Read Tony Robbins. And don't let little stuff like this one girl sway your whole world.

Shit happens man.

You have highs and lows, it's just how things go. Meet a great girl and it doesn't work out, slipped through your fingers? Just move on if it can't be salvaged but go that little bit extra above AFCs who would normally quit too early to save face but don't go so far as to be in stalker/creeper territory.

Had it happened to myself a couple of times when I fucked up with some HBs and all I can say is when you let it matter to you you'll only feel worse for it and not get better any time soon. Man up, move on, and enjoy yourself just learn not to get hung up on any one woman.

The most important lesson you'll learn is there is an abundance of women for you. You'll notice many women talk to you, enjoy your company and even fight over you if you have some game. When you realise that these things are easier to get over and really don't matter.

You mad bro? You wont be ever be fucking this chick, you have horrible game as you admitted.

i am afraid my reputation in that social circle has been damaged cause to them i look like a fool.

This is the biggest problem with most people. They care too much about how they look in other people their eyes. The moment you start caring only about how you think about yourself, is the moment you will be the master of the game. Stop trying to get back at people, feeling afraid, hurt, or even mad. Anger is weakness, a mind filled with anger is a mind filled with insecurity. I know, these are just words. But sometimes the only thing one needs, is words to fill up the hole and make progress. You're stuck in this cycle where you care about this one girl, who probably has an opinion about you. Listen, I've been in your situation. I've felt what you felt, the moment that I stopped caring about how people think about me. Was the moment that I managed to change my whole mindstate, and become one of the happiest persons in my social area. Maybe even the happiest one.

Think about this, and remember.

You're Alfa, nothing can stop you and nothing will stop you, from thinking positive. Because you're the one that makes things happen in YOUR life. When somebody does stuff like that to you, you just laugh and move on.

Youdabes [youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZVUyyHYkBHk[/youtube]

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Imdabes!

If this girl is cute, she is valuable to keep around. Use her as a wing man and you'll be fucking her faster than you can imagine.

you wanting revenge shows a gaping hole in your inner game... focus on your own successes and goals not hurting others.

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