I've read posts here for years and have had my fair share of successes and failures.
Someone 'in the know' recently said to me (after I told them about a failure).. that its really all down to dominance.
That when your frame is strong and the girl feels you are in control, then you should always be ok.
The theory kind of pushes the whole comfort/rapport thing to the side.

I know that comfort and rapport plays a bit of a part. She can't think you are a rapist, and there has to be some level of conversation, but when you look at the failures you have had i.e. went on a date a few times, girl flaked or just generally chatting and girl loses interest, do you think it is down to the whole confidence/dominance/control aspect?
Opposites can attract, so I refuse to believe just becuase you both have different ideas and interests that this alone is a deal breaker. People outside of the PUA scene talk about 'chemistry' etc. Again, I wonder if that is really all down to control of the conversation. There will always be exceptions to that rule, but do you think this is quite accurate?

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