I'm very keen to get into this game. I feel confident in myself for learning routines, openers etc. and im usually a quick learner. My big thing putting me off is my weight. Im massively overweight. working on it, but it will take a while

I keep reading about how looks do matter and about proper fitting clothing, which really arent options for me at the moment. is there any advice you can give?

much appreciated

Hey there,
Impressed even being overweight you seem confident. Work hard on trying to lose some. SPAM - diet works great.
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You can buy clothes that are bigger that still fit you right.

dude don't let it hold u down. Ur weight won't hold u back!!!! but it's good that you're working out and transforming yourself.

Just get it out of your head... replace the negative thoughts with more positive thoughts man!

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First of all.. the game is not about getting women. (more people will disagree with me than agree) It's about self improvement. Your weight is perfect however it is. The only thing women (or people) care about is how presentable you are. What do I mean by this? Just look like you care, shave, go to goodwill and experiment.

That being said.. I lost over 110 pounds with this simple trick (keep in mind this is not a marketing ploy as you are getting it for free)

Find your BMR here. http://www.bmi-calculator.net/bmr-calculator/ multiply that number by 7, subtract 1000, then divide that new number by 7. Do this every week. Now, to keep your metabolism up.. eat all you want one day a week.. My "cheat day" as it's called is sunday. My family makes a huge deal out of it, as we are celebrating weight loss. Now simplify your calories. Now instead of tracking every little calorie.. find out how many calories are in a certain food. Every 100 calories is 3 tokens. Beyond that every 30 calories is 1 token. So 150 calories is 4 tokens. 120 calories is 3. 290 calories is 9 tokens. Find how many you can have in your day by using the same token system. (mine is 30 tokens) and keep poker chips in your pocket to keep track within memorization.

I totally agree with this!

It is all about mindset. If you believe you are not good enough to game a girl, then you will not be able to get a girl. It is all self-fulfilling prophecy. What if you believe you can get all the girls you want??? Then you will get them.

Of course for some girls, being overweight might not something they will feel attraction at first. They will test you extra. If you are well prepared, then this is no issue. Overweight is no issue.

IT is all about your game!

1) Focus on getting healthier
2) Wear clothes that fit you well (as in tailored)
3) Breaking rapport will help all of your confidence.

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It is all about confidence and not giving a care to what people think. I used to be shy back many years, and I was a bit overweight as well. I started to change the way I thought about people in general. Why should I worry about what people think of me. If I try and fail, so be it, I'll move on to the next woman. Some women like bigger men too, it's all about how you present yourself to others.