My FB is about to break up with her BF



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PostPosted: Tue Jan 07, 2014 5:04 pm 
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Hey Guys. Just ignore my bad english .. not my first language
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I (26) have a romance with a girl (24) for 3 months now and she is in an open relationship with her boyfriend for 6 years.
I have to admit that I have quite some feelings for that girl.

I have a strong suspicion that shes going to break up with him in the near future
She didnt tell me anything, but I read her posts in another forum and I was able to find some indications that shes absolutely not happy in her relationship .. like "stuff is getting clearer .. but not easier".

Now my question.
How should I react if they really break up and I want to make the best of it?
I think its for the best if I dont intervene too much at the moment.
We usually write every 2-3 days but I think she needs some more time with her own thoughts and so I stopped writing so much. Is that the right strategy?
And even IF she broke up with him and wanted me closer, I would still be sceptical, because I dont wanna be the rebound-guy after a 6 year-relationship.

Does somebody have some good advice for me please?


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PostPosted: Tue Jan 07, 2014 9:02 pm 
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First you have to ask yourself, "what do I want"? Then you can decide what you need to do to get that outcome.

If you can better explain your ideal scenario/relationship with this girl, we will be able to give you better advice to get there.


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PostPosted: Tue Jan 07, 2014 10:45 pm 
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She has the potential for a LTR .. but after 6 years of constricting relationship I doubt she feels like jumping in the next LTR. Who would?


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PostPosted: Wed Jan 08, 2014 12:37 am 
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This happened to me. I let her be single for a while while she and I fucked other people to get it out of our system. Now we're together. You may have to give her space and let her try some other cock if you want to keep her.


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PostPosted: Wed Jan 08, 2014 9:56 am 
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Let her bring up the whole relationship thing.

You just keep fucking her better than anyone else is fucking her and she will slowly get more and more hooked on the d.


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