Hi guys! To save you some of the details i can say that we have been flirting back and forth for a while. my work situation went to the south and I could no longer risk not having her there to talk to me. hence I pulled back.

That didn't stop her, though. She really brought on her A game. After a while she went desperate and started talking about stuff I knew she found out I liked. Singing soccer rants against my team and other teasing, wanted to talk about sexual stuff like chippendales and naked men. I liked it but still didn't wanna risk having no one to talk to at work.

One week prior to me leaving the company, she went on this company ski trip and after that she didn't even look me in the eyes. I'm pretty sure someone told her I was dating another chick I picked up on a day gaming sarge. Well, because of that I never get to talk to her and ask her out. so instead I texted her that I liked her and that I never wanted to hurt her. She replied that she didn't think I had and that I should have a great vacation. A day later I asked her to come to my place for italian. She replied that she didn't want to.

So here's the question: How do you get a girl back that you have hurt? I really like this girl and I know she really liked me before that trip.