Got a girls number a few days ago, didn't message her until the other night(Happy new year crap). Haven't kissed this girl yet and only spoke to her for about two minutes before getting her number and leaving.

Messaged her in a drunken state just to say happy new year. She replied, I ignored it and totally forgot about messaging her. Next day, having forgotten the previous message, I text her the same thing again. Got a reply almost instantly...

Me: Have a good new year?
HB: Yeah, it was great! I went to a pub with some friends. What about you?
Me: My night was great. One of the best nights i've had in a while I couldn't even start to explain how awesome it was!!
HB: That's great! Did you go to see the show?
Me: The show?
HB: Ha, sorry! I meant the fireworks display for new years...
Me: Nope I was with my friends all night.

My text game blows. Zero escalation and i'm giving her half assed messages that may as well be one word responses. Also, given the fact that i've not kissed her i'm a bit iffed about flat out asking her out or to meet up. I'm probably going to message her next time I go out and invite her out for some drinks.

hey mate google text game overview there are some solid openers on there that I use also there is a thread on here with some solid openers aswell as a thread about sexting. All of which I have had great results with.
But my personal advice would be forget about this convo look up those threads find an opener that suits you I personally like teasing ones and use that. Then just go from there.
Good luck!!

Thanks for the reply!

Looking up a few things here... It's a big read from what i've come across! Anything more condensed in tip format(Short and easy to read)?

my best advice is study those, but only use what works for you. There's a lot of good openers, but they don't suit my personality so I don't use them. I posted a similar thread on here quite a while back the main advice I got was keep it light funny and sensual. If you look up some of Heywood's posts him and Skills360 seem to be the main guys for text game. Also another thing that might help you is go to www.badboylifestyle.com he has a free txt game ebook you can download its really good for beginner txt game. Also www.wayoftheplayer.com has some solid txt advice as well that I've found really helpful.

Hope that helps good luck!!

LOGISTICS. Wtf are you even doing here man? You know better than this. Boom, send a text, get a response, respond with some bs followed by a question that suggests meeting up.

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Alright, cool!

I'm just keeping it short, simple and for logistics. Already got her making time around my schedule...

I cancelled on this chick. Better things came up but I want to take her out. I was supposed to meet up with her on Saturday for a night out and invited her with some friends. She had an "off" date she invited me to but I declined and instead invited her out with me which she accepted. I changed the night and told her I was busy. She didn't reply.

I'm thinking of giving it a few days and if she doesn't message me to message her telling her we need to meet up, otherwise i'm going to forget about her(Not too serious but i'll be deleting her number if I don't get some action soon). Good call?

Update: I need some advice here...

I think i've gone about Text Game kind of wrong.

I've been very passive with her and not really generated any interest at all. I asked if she wanted to meet up on a specific day for a night out with me and some friends, she turned around and asked me for drinks with a friend who invited her out. I ignored it and say I was going out that night to which she said she would go with me. I tell her where it will be and what time and then I stopped messaging her after that. A few hours later I tell her I changed the day to that night and just leave the name of the place i'm going to, keeping it short. No reply.

This was two days ago and i've not messaged her since nor heard from her. I'm somewhat losing interest in this myself and finding that i'm not bothered meeting up with her but I really want to push myself with Text Game and turn this around. Should I call it a day and forget about her or go for another push?

How should I go about the third conversation over text? "Hey, i'm heading out on X. Want to come?" or be c/f and go with what I originally had planned of "We should meet up soon otherwise i'm going to forget about you! " Also, should I wait to text her closer to the day or text sooner rather than later so as not to unintentionally freeze her out for too long(Already been two days since I talked to her last)?

First conversation was a few days after getting her number to say happy new year. Second convo was about meeting up(Two days after that). Not much interest generated between those conversations I feel... Keep in mind I only spoke with this chick for five minutes then left. She seemed into me when we were talking and was all excited with my kino(Mostly friendly escalated to sexual -- waist hug, etc.), reacting well to it. When I left she messaged me to tell me she was leaving.

"text game" has nothing to do with shifting schedules around.
Your "text game" seems fine.

She's probably just irritated with you flaking on her so much.

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Text game? Do not text, a lot it should go something like this, hey nice meeting you..( reply), how was your day or how have you been (reply) I am going to the movies on Friday, you should come. (reply), great ill see you there.