So.. There is me, another guy and a girl we both like. I know this girl for 3-4 weeks now. ( I dont know how long they hang out together). Interesting thing here is that, we keep our kissing and stuff in secret and that other guy is kind of more official.
This other guy seems too much needy. He goes everywhere she goes. I play games with her for example i neg her, I talk with another people for quite long time and then I have great fun with her.
The thing that made me happy was that we were outside 4 of us (me,guy,her and her friend) and we wanted to go to another place which was a little far. The needy guy was there with a car but It had only 2 seats. We ended up walking 2 of us with the girl and that guy was kind of angry (ofcourse he called her 2 times). I tell you this just to let you know what my situation is.
We had a good time, but later she was sitting next to him and they were holding hands. (maybe more idk..)
I act pretty much like I dont care she is with him even though I do.. Do you have any tips how can I out-alpha him next time we will be 3 of us?? I dont want to be cruel or something, but I like this girl and I want to win her. What would you guys do?? Any tips? Also i would like to make this our thing not such a secret.. how do I do this? Or should I let it like this??