Sometimes, when I am quiet around her (and not even in a bad mood) or when I am in a slightly bad mood, my gf will say:

"are you gonna be cranky?"
"you were being a cranky asshole the other day"
"are you going to be pissy now?"

ect......

Sometimes I will laugh it off, but when she said it the other night I explained to her calmly "just because I am quiet sometimes after work, doesn't mean I am in a bad mood. I am glad we met up tonight, you should not create stuff when it isn't there"

Keep in mind I am NOT fighting with her during these times, whining, showing a ton of frustration, ect....I just am a little more quiet and less enthusiastic! She texted her friend and said I was being an ass or something and her friend said "is he being bitchy again lol, just hang out with him and have a good time if he is annoying you..." My girlfriend didn't use the word bitchy, she usually calls me cranky in these few instances

Is she just being insecure? Is this a shit test?

Keep in mind I always lead her, I get called an "asshole" quite often, the sex is awesome and she gets off, she buys me things, doesn't want me to move away for my job, ect....

Is she just insecure as to why I am not in a wonderful mood 24/7? This has only happened a few times and she is not bitchy around me. She has asked me if I am happy with her too

It means she finds silences uncomfortable at the moment

instead reach out to her feelings

say things like "Awwww are you feeling lonely" and smile

she might say "yes, because, blah blah blah" go on reflecting back what she says to you

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Whilst I myself have not been in an LTR, this is a girl signaling to you that you are not investing enough in her. When I say investing I mean being fully present with her when you're actually with her. I know this is extremely difficult to do, hell I have a hard time with my friends alone, but this is something you should work towards. When you are with a person to be with them fully.

Are you thinking about work when you meet up with her?

I'd get rid of her.

From where I am sitting; she is being unsupportive and that a clear red flag. I hate instilling doubt in guys, but how sure are you that she is being faithful to you? I can't imagine one of my girlfriends talking to me this way, or talking to her friends about me this way. I just don't allow things like that.

Hows the sex btw? Is it good? Is she cumin?

It appears she has a bit of resentment toward you for something, and that is why she is picking on you. When i'm not in a chipper mood; my girls will rub my shoulders, make me food; or just ask is there anything they can do to make me feel better. She's doing the total opposite.. making it worse.

Test her though man. Next time she does this; just ask her to leave.. and mean it. He actions will tell you everything you need to know.

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I don't know if LionHeart's gf is cheating. He has said she is very immature.

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The sex is amazing by her own words and when talking about me moving away she didn't want me to leave, said she'll never settle for just ok sex again and how is she gonna com without me? This past time she called me cranky it was because she interpreted it that way before taking me out for my birthday present. She said I can go with someone else! In a bitchy joking way. The time before was because I made a remark about the sex that particular time.

But as far as talking to her friends about me, I've seen in her phone convos about her uncertainty that I went to the movies with another girl when I told her I went with a buddy, and that I didn't hang with her one time so she was mad. The cogs in her mind definitely wonder about me.

But also I've seen convos about how I am being cranky etc to her best friend while I am at her house. I kinda use as whole game on her but it's playful tho she thinks I won't go the extra mile for her so I occasionally show my kind side. She has a bunch of afc orbiters but she tells me when they step out of line trying to send her pics etc.

I have even suggested New hobbies for us and she has said my hobby with you is having sex...lol

To me, it sounds like she's just interested in sex, especially after OP's most recent post. If you care for this women, tell her how you feel.

She could very well be. But it's a jump from she's not supportive--->she's immature---> she's cheating.

Personally I think from Lionheart's posts that he's in an immature relationship on both sides. Alot of games being played. Sounds like they're in high school but they're not. He's an asshole to her, she is to him. It wouldn't surprise me if she is cheating, or if he were.

Yo stop instilling fear where there need be none. A lot of the times I see posts where people say that if the girl is acting up she's cheating, she's fucking some other dude. WTF kind of a mindset is this? You think naturals think like this? Naturals think, nah this chick likes me, she ain't never gonna cheat on me. That's exactly the right mindset to have that the girl will not cheat on you. At the same time props to Lionheart for asking all these questions. From what I can gather this is his first long term relationship, and when he doesn't know what's up he asks.

I'd say stop focusing on whether or not she is cheating but rather just fix what you can fix. BTW she is probably not cheating, although who am I to say that? I don't know any of you in person (unless I fucked her last month...)

so are you with her RIGHT after work?

Ok let's backtrack enough with the "shes cheating" bs. There's absolutely no evidence that points to that... over thinking things like this will only ruin you.


but I'm always quiet after work. My girlfriend used to get on my nerves for talking to me when I'm trying to unwind.

Men need time to unwind after work and women don't understand this. You guys might need to have a talk... tell her to give you some alone time right after work so you can unwind. Then afterwards you can give her your complete focus (which is what she's begging for)

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yeah, i don't know what you guys are smoking with the "she might be cheating" crap. I use asshole game and generally speaking women like the negging and such. I realize that if I never told her I love her (which I do), spend time with her, ect. then she might cheat...but comon guys treat em mean keep em keen!

aren't the typical signs of cheating: makes plans less, much less sex or bad sex, fighting all the time/girl is pissy in your presence, dressing differently, ect?

in contrast:
She doesn't shave down there
She is going on a vacation with me soon
She doesn't want me to leave her for future work
Says "I am soooo attracted to you" just a night ago
She initiates sex frequently
She spends tons on me
Gets my family christmas presents
Says "you are an asshole and I can't stand it but I also know that is what makes me like you"

And I wouldn't say she is an asshole to me at all.... tho she kinda thinks I am to her, for instance she says "I know you appreciate me but if I were losing my foot you wouldn't help me out" or something like that...she feels I don't do much for her while she does more for me. She does laundry for me sometimes, pays for things, says she loves me first...

now there is some jealously plotline game playing between us, such as "such and such texted me" or this girl said I was cute, ect...............and a little bit of hard to get games via text....but still it seems to be effective on both sides to keep interest. She wonders a bit if I can be totally trusted, but she doesn't think I would cheat as I always STRESS LOYALTY AND HONESTY

yeah all you had to say was she doesn't shave down there... that proves she's not cheating lol.

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