Hi Ghoys,

2 questions.

A girl I've been hanging out with for over a year now (I honestly see her as a friend, but when I get drunk I end up going off with her,) well, she's crazy about me. I told her at the very start when I first saw her that I'm not looking for any relationships or anything like that and we're just friends but when I get drunk as I said - I go against my inhibitions.

Anyway, I've recently moved abroad, and on a SPAM session she tells me she had a miscarriage for me (bullshit if you ask me) - her timeframes don't necessarily add up and she also took the emergency pill from the local chemist the time we had sex. She said she didn't tell me about the miscarriage at the time because I was abroad and what could I have done and also said she was scared.

Now, I smelled bullshit at the time but being the guy who doesn't normaly jump the gun I let my thoughts gather over a couple of weeks. I said it to my friends who know her and some of them are girls. I said it to the girl's best friend also, and she aswell as my friends all said it has to be bullshit.

The question is, any of you had any experience with a girl like this and can shed some insight into your personal story so I can learn more, this is the first time I've had something like this and it's not nice at all.

My SECOND QUESTION is about pregnancy - The last time I was with her we had sex with no condom, I didn't ejaculate, however there is always a danger with precum.

Now, when we had sex it was 6 days after her period. The next day I asked her to go to the doctors to get the emergency pill. She went (apparently), I got her to send me pics to prove it, which she just sent a pic of the outside of the building. She said she got 2 needle injections and 1 emergency contraceptive pill and that the doctor checked her vagina for any semen and found none.

The next day she messages me saying she had her period again (8 days after her last period) so she went to the doctors that morning to see what's up with that. The doctor apparently told her that all girls have this at some point and that any sexual activity that took place between the 2 periods will be cancelled aka there's no danger of her being pregnant. My question on this one is, should I still be worried? I'm getting very paranoid about it because for me to have a you know what with this girl would ruin my whole life - she is the opposite of what I want in a mother of my child. She did say if she got pregnant she would have an abortion - and that's fine with me - but what if she gets emotionally attached to the baby etc. and doesn't go ahead and have one. Ugh.

And yes I know it's my own fault for not using a condom - I was really drunk.

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I've never had anything like that happen so I can't reply to your first question. As for your second question I'd say don't worry. I'm not a doctor but here's what I know. Female ovulation occurs once a month. If her egg is not fertilized within a couple days, her body will flush it out through menstruation. After her period, she cannot get pregnant until her next ovulation. If you had sex within a week of her period, there could have been no egg to fertilize. I think her second period was possibly caused by whatever the doctor gave her. I don't know what those injections contain. Maybe the morning after pill has that effect? To cause another period?

Thanks for the reply, this is what I'm thinking too but I'm really paranoid. Thanks again man!

RUN. THE. FUCK. AWAY. NOW.

I've had this before. It was fucking crazy. Chicks like that aren't worth it even if the sex is great!

Yeah I have completely blocked all forms of communication from her, facebook, instagram, snapchat, SPAM, phone, viber etc.

Plus I'm in a different country. I'm doing us both a favour, that's the way I see it. Just hope I don't wake up in the middle of the night with her yielding an axe over my head begging me to love her the way she loves me!

Only form of contact she could get me on is through her friend or some of my friends whom she befriended on facebook.