Dumped her. She reversed the roles, and made me want her. I initiated NC. Shes broken it 3 times. The last time, I reinitiated, and asked her to stop contacting me. She broke it again today.

Her..."Merry Christmas (my name)"

Me...Immediately..."To you too, (her name, spelled wrong because Ive always purposefully spelled it wrong."

Her...few minutes later..."you know its not spelled like that."

her....a few minutes later again..."did you get everything you wanted for christmas?"

me...45 minutes to an hour later..."yeah, I would say so."

Her...few minutes later..."good. Are you still seeing that other girl?"


....lol! Merry Christmas. Are you still with her? hahaha. its almost comical.

that was hours and hours ago. I havent responded, but also havent opened the instant message yet, so it doesnt look as if ive even opened or seen it from her end.

Do I even respond to this?

No I dont want her back as a girlfriend, but I want her to want me. Im a prick yeah, whatever.

My only response would be..."huh? stop that. Btw, I was in maine this past week. My dad is going to send you your jacket."

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She is with someone else. Her rebound.

What should I do here? I want her to chase me again, so I am validated, so i can move on completely. Yes, i understand the psychological connotations of this, I just would like some sound gaming your ex back advice, please.

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eh. fuck it. I responded with...

"huh? stop that.

I was just in Maine. My dad still has your bad ass jacket. Hes gonna send it to you."

...jesus. She got back to me, immediatly, right now.

Her, "Y didnt you grab it????? Then I could have seent you. lol. do you miss me? dont be a liar."


hahahaha. wtf.

Any advice would be cool.

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advice for what?

What are you gaining by pulling this girl on a string and having her chase you? A small ego boost?

If you're putting this much energy into an ex you don't desire getting back with you won't have enough focus for more important thing whether it's future accomplishments financially, or a healthier relationship, or simply dating girls that you're actually interested in dating.

My advice is to cut her off and stop worrying about keeping this chase alive. Obviously you've already accomplished that by ignoring her.

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