Hi, I'm new to this PUA stuff. My biggest (current) obstacle is not knowing how to start. I feel like if I could just set up a date with the girl I'd be able to handle the rest quite well, but of course there is a ton of work to be done before you even set up a date.

I guess I don't really know how to approach, problem is I don't think I have AA, I can approach almost anyone and just ask them for the time or for directions or something like that. But what should I do after that? Saying or doing anything else after approaching seems unnatural to me, it seems very awkward.
Say I approached a girl and asked for directions, after she is done giving me the directions what would I say to continue or start a (natural feeling, I don't want it to feel like I'm forcing the convo) conversation?
I have no clue!

Could someone please give me some advice or guidance? =)

PS: I know that there are probably a ton of similar topics in this forum but as I said I am new and don't really know how to search for them, etc. But whatever..

Hey man after the approach just fluff talk. Examples:



- Do you believe in ghost

-What are your views on the world

- What do you think about conspiracy



You don't have to use those topics. But something out of the ordinary man

don't be all generic with your game about stuff thats boring you know?

I hope this helps in some way!

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Hmm, that still feels like an odd thing to do.
I mean, lets say I approached a girl on the street and asked her for some directions, surely I can't ask her if she ''believes in ghosts, what are your views on the world'' or anything similar after she gives me the directions? Lol
I understand what you're saying though, I guess those things might work in a club or bar environment but I'm not really a club or bar typa guy.

i have the exact same problem mate.I can open,but i can't close.

Haha dude I do it all the time. The thing is...you have to have the balls to go do it

and be confident enough...if the women blow you off then they blow you off. Lol on to the

next man.

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