In an LTR, got a few "I'm tired"'s and a "we have to wait" when initiating sex with HB 9. Flipped the script in non-obvious way over the course of a few weeks. Denied her once for the entire night, made her a ball of lust and made her ask if we were having it next time?

Denied her pre-dinner one time, and by after dinner she was crazy horned up and ready to go.

Stopped banging her mid-sex last night and she was mad, said "I hate you" in a horny way, ect.

SHE initiates even more now (she always did anyway), views me as the gatekeeper to sex, is insecure about feeling "annoying" because she is "all over me", asks me "why am I the one initiating all the time now?", says the chemistry is freakin great, ect.

And guess what? I am banging her in exactly the same fashion as before, but the script has been flipped as to who is chasing for sex (I never really chased, but I initiated more back then)

Truly goes to show you that guys who get those lines regularly, it probably isn't HOW GOOD you are banging her, but how she sees if you need sex with her or not

Sex denial is truly awesome DHV and it has turned around my sex life with her from feeling slightly sexually needy to her getting pissed that she can't have it when she wants it! (dont worry, she still gets it alot)

anyone use this?

hmm I probably gonna try this out, though i wonder if i should do it to a chick right off the bat after meeting her or after i intiated a few times already, then start trying that.

I'd say after you have banged her many times. I wouldn't do it too early. Every once in awhile to reset the power dynamic if you guys have it alot. When I left the honeymoon phase with her I still wanted as much sex and she might have dropped off a little because she didn't have to work for it. Now it has reversed again. But this is after banging her 14 months plus

Is this similar to the 1 step forward 2 steps back method or at least tangible?

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