I went out for a few dates with some girl earlier this year.
She told me on the 3rd date she needed some space and didn't want to arrange a 4th date so soon..

I didn't really know what it meant but got back in contact with her a few times. She flirted with me over text, but would also make an excuse about why she couldn't see me. She was recovering from a relationship break up (heart broken) and told me she just didn't want to date at the time etc..
Last time we had texted I just asked her to let me know when she was free.. she replied 2 days later telling me about her weekend but not answering the question?!
Anyway.. I left it at that.. assumed defeat or low interest and not worth doing anymore.

I saw her last week. She went to same bar I went to for an event. I ignored her when I walked in as if she wasn't there.
About 30 mins after I walked in, she came up to me.. started talking to me.. we stood there chatting for 5 mins. I cut the conversation and said lets go to the bar/lets get a drink.. I think she went separately and that was it. Maybe didn't hear me or thought I wanted to leave it etc..
I was drinking quite a bit and when I do, I become very confident and alpha and am good around the girls.

I also met some girl there who I have been seeing for about a year. Don't like her anyway near as much, but she is always up for kissing/coming back to mine and this was perfect jealousy material.
It seemed in addition to pulling this girl around with me, I was also flirting with (I have been told as I don't remember much) this other girls friends and she could see that.

(lets say)
girl I like= 1,
girl I just fuck that was also there = 2

At the end of the night, 1 still there and only a few of us were left. Apparently I went up to her when she talking to another friend of mine and has my arms around her, was flirting and then I know we went into a deep conversation. I only remember very little of what we spoke about.
I think I remember her asking how long I have been seeing girl 2, and I told her about a year. She seemed pissed off as she realised I was seeing 2, when myself and 1 went on a few dates.

girl 2 wanted to come home with me and was coming up to me by the bar whilst I was talking 1. I told her to wait downstairs.. 2 came back up 10 mins later.. I told her to wait again.. She started going mad.. I said well tough shit.. go home then. 1 moved to go to the toilet probably thinking how was stealing my attention from 2. However, I then decided to leave with 2 without saying goodbye.

So I was with 2 walking down the street 10 mins later, when low and behold, 1 starts calling my phone. I couldn't believe it. I ignored the call and went home with 2.

I text 1 the next day

me: I saw you calling last night, wow you're keen!
her: We were mid chats, I popped to the loo an you vanished like mr vanish!
me: I guess I must have been thoroughly entertained by the conversation then
her: Cheeky!!


So it has been 4 days now, no contact since. But with respect to all of this.. what does she want?

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The D. I couldn't resist. Not surprising if she does though. This is a good lesson in social proof and jealousy. Even in a drunken stupor you played that evening just right to get Girl-1 interested again, good job.

I have messed it up so many times in my life and this girl I have been obsessed with for ages. To have pulled it off that night in that fashion has made me very proud of myself. I don't know where to go now..

1. I can leave it.. but nothing usually = nothing.

2. Maybe I can send some arrogant funny texts

I don't know.. any ideas?..

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You know the sitch better than any of us. For example you didn't mention how far things went on the 3 dates you had with this girl.

Obviously you don't want to leave it as nothing will happen. If you go the arrogant/funny text route I would keep it at a 7.5/10 on the arrogance scale. Too over the top might chase her off. Yet at the same time you have the upper hand in the "relationship" right now and you don't want to lose that or her interest will go back to 0.

Possibly text her to continue the conversation out some night and tell her if she's a good girl you might stick around this time. Don't say that verbatim, it's just the general idea. This gets her out with you 1 on 1 where you can go kino and close. But again you didn't state how far the first 3 dates went so it's next to impossible to give completely solid advice.
This tells me you know what you are doing so whatever you decide to do it will probably be the right call. Enjoy.