new to the furm and hoping i can get some pointers. so heres my story im freshly single after 2 years (almost took the plunge) and got out of that a couple months ago. i started studying this art shortly after and im practicing the basics. im surprised how easy and fun it gets when you get the hang of it. anyways after texting the same girl everyday for 2 years my text game could definately use some wd40. theres no problem meeting the women and closing ive got plenty of numbers and sometimes i get them the next morning if you know what i mean. after that is usually all goes downhill. heres an example of how it goes. so i went out with a bunch of ppl last night to go to a bar and chill for a little bit. i picked my target which was a friend of a friend i never met before. i played the game flawlessly. she was even making it easy taking my phone and adding me on ig and fb right in front me. weve been texting off and on today since we both had to work all day and this is how its going.

her-hey, i made it home in one peice lol
me- see texting was lot better lol now you can get your 5 hours in
her- 5 very short hours
me- 5 and half hours without a shower right? (inside joke)
next morning
her-so i caved and took a shower lol
me-i caved to:( you made it sound good last night, you feel like a champ today?
a couple hours later
me- you were out of control last night
her-me? never
me-idk you probably cant remember it all
her-yeah those 3 beers really did me in
me- oh, and i thought i was the sarcastic one in all this
her-you were obviously so wrong
me-ouch... and where was this fun girl last night
her-she was there, you were just too intoxicated to notice (i did have some liquid confidence in me)
me- she was the fun one who broke my phone
her- i fixed your phone!
me-oh really? so i owe you one then?
her- haha yep

and i cut it off after that. in rapport she said she usually stops the convo so i figured id be a little different. so what do you guys think? ill be the first to admit that im not the best texter at all. im looking for some advice to see if im doing anything right. you can watch guys in the field and see there techniques but you cant really ask them can i see your phone and see how you text your hb. ive read into it a little and from what i understand you dont need to go into rapport again during text convos just keep it light and try and set something up to meet up again. is this right? im pretty lost and need some direction. thanks

It's fine. Link the 'I owe you' to scheduling a meetup. It's a natural progression.
yessir.

Thanks man I just needed to know I wasn't screwimg it up and the IOU meet up was where I was heading so I guess I'm doing something right

i generally do not text that much before arranging a meeting, that's my only advice. Get her out already.

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This. ^^^

Quit pussy footing around and make a move. Get her to see you again.

This. "Text game" to me is pointless. I'm busy doing other stuff with my life. I don't have time to have "text conversations" with her, and even if I did, there's no point- very little of it translates.

Just get her to meet with you. Most guys end up trying to tease/be challenging over text. It lowers their value. Text is a tool to get the girl out with you.

Honestly I never thought about it like that i figured texting was the way to go since that's the way most girls speak now a days. I thought it was a key part after getting the number. But I did balls up an were hanging tomorrow actually so thanks for the help.

i enjoy texting and it works for me, but my text are with underlying sexual communication. But to have long convos/get to know type text is useless, better to keep it short and go for the meet, again unless underlying sexual in nature which is my style.

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I liked the natural progression on the IOU also. Make the move, don't sit and wait!

A big technique I guess that could help with the title of your post is something I use called the fire and forget method. Essentially, shoot the text, put your phone down and go do something. Make it look like your finding time to fit her into your day. This limited communication will also help build for another meeting. Playing all of your fluff and aimlessly texting may take some of your cards you have to play.

keep up the good work!

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