| So I've been browsing the abundance of tips on this forum for a while now, and have now decided to ask you guys for some advice on a specific situation. My game's definitely not that good yet, so I'm sure whatever you guys say will be worth something.
THE STORY SO FAR:
I met this HB9,5 on tinder, #closed her quickly and we started texting and snapchatting for a week. At the end of the week she suggests we'd go on a dinner date. We make plans, I get daily texts and pictures from her without doing anything myself, but on the day of the date she flakes on me. I act unphased and ignore her a bit. After a couple of days I text her again. After texting like before again for a few days she suggests a dinner date, promising she wouldn't flake this time. I agree, and a couple of days of texting later we have our date.
FRIDAY: Date 1 started off a bit awkward but quickly progressed to a fun date. I pass all her shit tests greatly, get in some kino, we move to a second venue, she shows me her panties, we flirt a bit, and at the end of the date when we start to make out profoundly for half an hour. She reinitiated the kissing multiple times. I now regret I didn't try to F-close her a bit more but hey...
SATURDAY: I make a mistake by texting her the next day, asking her whether she got home ok. I now know I should've waited. We text a bit, but she seems a bit different. Half of her replies are somewhat cold. I give her some space and I receive one more snapchat in the evening.
SUNDAY: I wait until the next night to text her I just got back from a great party where a friend of me mentioned he went to the movies with her cousin and wished her goodluck with her exam the next day. She responds half weird/half enthusiastically.
MONDAY: Next day she texts me how her exam went, but she was extremely cold. This is where I started a freeze-out.
SATURDAY: 5 days later I decide to text her something like: 'Omg I just saw a girl dressed like a giant cookie outside Starbucks and she looked just like you. Plz tell me that wasn't you..' (Found it somewhere online, thought it was pretty good). For the first time she responds completely enthusiastically again. I end the conversation quickly though, but I make sure I drop in something about being with a girl at the moment and that I can't talk right now but I'd text her later. Which I intentionally did not do btw. We are now 1 day later than when I reinitiated.
ABOUT THE GIRL:
She's very good looking but also an attention whore, and not that bright. I've picked up that she isn't looking for a relationship and she gets bored with guys very quickly. She lives just far enough that it's not a total issue, but it does make it a bit more difficult to convince her to come to me in stead of me coming to her. (We went to a restaurant near her for date 1)
MY QUESTION:
Should I just drop it completely after reinitiating yesterday? I know she gets bored really quickly and she might already have another guy to entertain herself with. Her interest level was really low ever since the day after date 1. BUT, she did act normal again yesterday.
Would NC be the better option to have some chance of her contacting me, or do I just give it one last shot by texting her tonight with a hook and progress that conversation to suggesting date 2?
Or am I just clueless and this is already completely unsalvageable...
Apologies for the long ass post, but I wanted to explain the situation properly.
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