Hey guys here's my question. Not last summer, but the summer before I met this girl things were good, but I didn't realize there was an ex factor involved, and how badly she was hung up, so I was dead in the water before I even started. Anyway things started going down hill, and I made the mistake of chasing. When I finally stopped pushing, and stepped back she came back, but the relationship was doomed anyway. In the midst of all this I had to get my bloodwork done for boxing it came back not clear there was a chance it was cancer, but thankfully it turned out not to be. My mentality at the time was needy as fuck I won't argue that my thoughts were I can't handle my situation let alone losing her too. I thought by chasing her I'd get her back. Wrong!!

Fast forward to today a little over a year later I'm long over her. I went on fb I don't pay a whole lot of attention to it, but I saw she was on I thought about re-opening just for the sheer fuck of it, and the fact I have nothing to lose. Lately I've been re-opening a lot of girls I haven't had contact with in a long time as well as meeting new ones.

What are your guys thoughts on that? And if I do how should I go about it I'm just think of it as a potential challenge that could be fun. As always any advice is appreciated thanks!

Yeah man go for it. Sometimes it works and can work wonders, and if you have nothing to lose you only have something to learn.

Cool mate I think I'm gonna give it a try! I have no emotional attachment to her anymore, so I'm kinda looking forward to the challenge of it. I'm kinda baffeled as to what to say to re-open though. It has to be something attention grabbing. What do you think is a good way to open?

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