Hello.. my question is about the fact that some random particular days (maybe once in two weeks) I notice signs of being more attractive to women like I notice them staring at me and even flirting; it happens to be the day I care the less about it and Im concentrated on something else. In contrast, when trying to apply PUA knowledge and project confidence and what not the result is the opposite.. backfire. in fact I remember old times when I was very insecure and deppresive guy and I would attract more girls; my look and attitude was more excentric back then. That puts in doubt the whole point about projecting confidence.. unless I am understanding confidence in a wrong or shallow way? Perhaps not caring about PUA shows authenticity which is lost when im attempting to project confidence.. ir somehow behaving like crazy, careless or troubled guy works better for me (

Any thoughts on this?

You're probably showing more confidence cause you're not trying too hard. Women have told me many times they are attracted to me because I have a nonchalant attitude and I don't try so hard to impress them.

Dude once I was at Red Lobster with this girl (I actually hate red lobster but it was a double date so whatever).... and it was my first time ordering lobster. I got this whole entire lobster and I'm struggling to pick the bitch apart while im making a huge mess, it's squirting all over the place lol.. but i just acted like myself and was very unapologetic about it. I think most guys would've been losing their cool and thinking they're fucking the date up.

I ended up having sex with her that night at her place... and she mentioned that situation and actually it turned her on because I have an attitude that I don't really give a shit what people think about me.

I dunno... it sounds like you're displaying more confidence to me. I think in order to become a master at this shit is you eventually have to stop trying to perfect every single PUA technique to a T. Eventually it becomes a part of you and you just naturally become more confident from the material you studied.

Stop trying too hard, stop worrying, clear your mind. A woman will ALWAYS be more attracted when you seem harder to obtain, a challenge what have you.

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Think I posted this question in the wrong section sorry about that..

Thanks for the tips, definetely the "trying to hard" thing can ruin it all.. girls seem to instantly detect it.

The thing is.. I have better results in the attraction stage when my mind is totally free from any PUA intention.. the difficulty is how to react properly and quickly at an opportunity when the "PUA mind" is neccesary.