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Ok that makes sense, I have a few more questions tho. What are parts that she will never give up? and what do you mean by at 1st? Does that mean that later she need to trust you to keep having sex?
Well, think about it this way: there are stuff you tell girls, stuff you tell your friends, and stuff you only tell to very close friends. The "I'd take a bullit for that bastard" kind of friends. This is pretty much the same thing. There is this girl I know, she friendzoned me, I tried to get out, didn't work, then used her as a wing and eventualy ended up hooking her up with one of my mates. To this day she is probably my biggest friend and there is stuff I know about her that no one else knows. She had some 5 boyfriends since I know her and none of them knows her as well as I do. The same way she knows stuff about me I never told my GF. The way I see it, that is what he meant. People have layers (like ogers and onions). The more you trust someone, the more you let them peel the layers of your being. But the very core, the heart of who you are, is for nobody else but you.
As for the second question, yes. You may have a one night stand with pretty much anyone. Ever heard about "angry sex"? There was this one time, I had been invited by a college professor of mine to be one of the spokesman on a conference cicle about political radicalism and terrorism. Basically, I am a former law enforcment officer and current security consultant at a risk managment and competitive intelligence company. I'm the typical conservative big guy with slicked back hair and a $1000 suit who thinks "democracy" stands for sending your ass to guantanamo and sees human rights and freedom of the press as more of guidelines than actual rules. And I shared my pannel with a smoking hot left wing human rights activist who worked for some imigrant protection NGO. We were at each other's throats for two days. The words "nazi" and "pot head hippie" may have been used. On the last day, at the closing dinner, we both drank a little too much and ended up sharing a taxi to the hotel. Then we went to her room for one of the best nights of sex I ever had, and I'll be glad if I don't see her pretty mug and stunning ass ever again. So you see, she doesn't even have to like you to have sex with you. You may have sex on lust alone. But to have sex REPETEDLY, either she is your friend with benefits (and I assume you don't have friends you don't trust) or she becomes your girlfriend. Hence, the "at first" part.
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