I don't have an excuse to quit keep come back for answers I'm content with and I don't expect everyone to understand me at first. I've told a few artists about this same problem, all they do is scorn me, told me to do eye contact, "lip read" and pay attention (oh the irony) and leave it at that. Those are basic skill that everyone already know about, it's not something I'm looking for, what they fail to understand is that mine is more complicated way of manager people. To cut the chase, I am deaf and my goal is to be a good lover. Think of me as a foreign man who speak differently than you do. American Sign Language is my primary language, its grammar structure is completely different than English and it's based entirely on body language. That means I see the world differently, one of things I learn as a deaf person is you don't need to rely solely on verbal communication to get by. That kind of vibe I want to embrace with a woman, use visual and physical contact only. Nice fantasy, but it's difficult for me to do.

I've been study about PUAs and read books to help me understand more about women for the last six years. At first I was a bit excited and want to learn more as fast as I can, saw so many new opportunity with only a few success. That's okay with me, 'cause I wasn't serious back then and everyone love me as a sociable guy. The only difference between now & then I know of is the way I use my eyes in social scenes. I tried to be deliberate about it 'cause I have no idea where to look at when everyone is talking at the same time. If done right or when accident happens, I made everyone feel awkward, occasionally made women feel arouse for a moment. I haven't been in the game for several years and I think I'm ready to dig a bit to figure out how to make a girl hang around with me by escalate fast and aggressive.

It sounds like by six years I could make a girl blush whenever I want to by just go and fuck do it. What's stop me from do this is communication barrier. This is the stick point I'm talking about, I'm asking you to imagine this: can you go into seductive mode and secure a girl silently without cellphone force your "in the know" eyes to break off from her eyes and tease her with something like, "We're not having sex tonight" when she test you? I don't know if that works, I wouldn't want to snuggle her with cellphone in my hand all night, would you?

I think I'm done for now, I have more in mind. It is understandable that anyone don't have a clue what I'm talk about. If anyone are still going be harsh on me about what to do like artists I mention above, all I see is a clown. I didn't sign up for boot camp. I want something to talk about like suggestion or idea that is useful to me.

I go to to super loud nightclubs because I know most people try to have conversations on the dancefloor which kills attraction.

But I usually do dancegame and make them super horny before I leave the nightclub. Usually without saying much.

Granted, I would small talk if she comes back to my place but I'm sure I could pull it off being deaf.

Are you mute? Forgive me, can you speak? I don't know much being deaf

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Dance game is something I could do, I don't know moves so well. I need to understand rhythm so my body can move smoothy along with it. That would be helpful if I find a partner who would train me how to do it, I don't want to risk dance like a monkey.

I can say only a handful of words like Mom, Dad, my sister and bro's name, boo, shhh. Just so you know mute is an offensive term for deaf people, it's related only to people who can hear but cannot talk. I'm letting this slip away 'cause I'm happy that you want to understand what's it like to be deaf. You can go pick a movie you haven't watch yet and press mute on - whoops I used the curse word again! Lol anyway try to understand what is going on, it's mostly guesswork. The only difference is you can hear yourself breathing and your heart beating. I know this from hearing aid I wore. Hard to imagine huh?