Want to know your tips for getting her to want to chase you?

I know a lot say leading an interesting life socialising a lot will draw girls but you have to do more than that.

Reason is there's a girl I want to chase me and I'm conscious not to always start the convo and stuff.

I tried testing her a little:

- At a party someone said "get your shirt off" to which I turned to her and said "I'm not doing it but you can cant you!" To which she was like ok and laughed and undid it lol. She also took a load of pictures of her on my phone.

- Also tested her by asking her to go find me something I wanted which she was willing to do

Yet I only see her fleetingly at work and I need to get her number to try and escalate this up then ask her out to something but want to gage her interest first. I'd say 60% of the interactions on twitter we've had have been initiated by me, thus i dont wanna start too many more. I've only known her for a few weeks as it stands so need to show that I'm interested in her without blowing her off?

You fellas got any tips or personal experiences which might help a girl chase you?

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basically you're starting off great.

what i do when i want a girl to chase me is i slowly show her more and more false interest (basically start asking more questions and doing more things to make her feel like she earned it) then when she makes me mad (i fake get mad over stupid shit) i take all that interest away.....this usually take anywhere from a week to a month to accomplish....if you see that she wants you even if its a tad bit then show no interest, don't be an asshole but put her in the "friendzone" women are people too just like men and when a man gets into the friendzone we want to get out of it, not just because we want the person but because we like a challenge(remember girls are taught that they're suppose to be pursued so when they finally have to work for something they like it)

if you're in a rush, then if you're arrogant, funny, and cocky but at the same time nice then she'll fall for you faster (worked for me a couple times) its nothing wrong with starting a conversation BUT make sure they're interesting and make you look attractive (who wants to chase something that's ugly??)

and basically teasing is flirting but it works so well cause it proves to her that you think she's not the queen of the universe, it show's she's human


hope that helped a little

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

You don't have her number... yet she took your phone and started taking pictures of herself topless... This should have been sealed and done away with long ago. You risk being friend zoned if you keep this up.

On twitter or FB just tell her to give you her number. She'll give it to you because she's interested. She won't ask for a reason. If she does just say you can't be online much because of work or whatever. Boom! Number sorted, time to arrange a meet up.

very simple, i thought he meant how to get her to go crazy over him...that was good logic

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

Thank you both of you for your responses I appreciate them!

@GamesSN thank you yeah I will go get her number now, though do you think going up in person is better rather than over a social network? This might sound weird but I've honestly never had to ask a girl for her number; out of the 100+ I have they have always just given it to me early on without me askin so I'm kinda out of practice hence the slowness lol.

@southerngentleman thanks mate I half get what you mean, send her mixed signals to get her thinking and kinda be antagonistic in reaction to her e.g. She flirts, friendzpne her. She stops showing so many signs flirt heavily? I got a question though...isn't this risking putting her off and friend zoning yourself?!

I look forward to your replies and if anyone else can add anything please do!

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nooo don't friendzone yourself friendzone her, women live there whole life feeling like every man wants them so when you finally act like you don't they want you even more

i used to have a friend who got all the girls in high school, i thought it was because he was on the football team but he had all the girls chasing him in college also, because he didn't act like he wanted them(the reason was because he was gay)

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

Put some jewellery in your pants, that'll get her chasing you.

Personally, I think it's kind of weak for a woman to ask you for your number. I like to be a bit dominant and take charge at times but sometimes it's nice to let it fall into place. To each their own really.

As for getting her number: It really doesn't matter. The end result is the same and it doesn't really have much of an effect on someone unless you meet her in a bar in which case you just get her number. The only way it's specifically bad is if you deliberately wait to see her in person to ask her when you talk to her regularly online anyway.

Thanks once again guys.

Right so I'm gonna try and test her compliance in the process of getting her number. The other day I asked her to get me something at a party to which she went off dutifully leaving our friendship circle and tried to find the item.

I never got it on the night but then when I tweeted saying how muh I wanted this item for the memories it would provide, she tweeted me saying she's got it for me hehe!

So my plan is tweet her telling her to give me her number so we can meet up at work tomorrow (that's when I'm most likely to see her) and give it to me.

You reckon I should put forward meeting up sometime later next week then or wait till after the exchange?

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You're thinking way too much into this dude.

All these games were basically to see if a woman was into you over a short period of time. What you have here is clearly different to gaming a girl in a bar. From the sound of things she's into you.

Just man up, keep your persona, ask for her number either in personal message via FB or Twitter or next time you see her, whatever's convenient and presents itself the opportunity first. If you over complicate this you'll over think it and overshoot everything.

Grow a pair, get her number and ask her to meet up. Stop thinking so much about it and focus on being confident in yourself. She's clearly into you, she's showing all the signs(Half naked pictures, proximity, messaging you 24/7 on Twitter, getting stuff for you). If she doesn't like you she is one extremely flirty and needy chick to do this with a guy she has no interest in.