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PostPosted: Sat Dec 07, 2013 10:34 am 
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Please give me suggestion what can I do in case I want to still get this girl. I know my chance is very low, but please give some input and no hate comment. Thank you.

So I gamed this shy, inexperienced girl. she is extremely she doesnt talk to anyone except to her girl friend of same age. we all hang out together because we are colleague. so i was too direct and game her with too much kino, making my intent kinda obvious that im approaching her. Now she is uncomfortable with me and think that im a player hit on every girl.

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PostPosted: Sat Dec 07, 2013 2:04 pm 
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Going to have to build a lot of comfort and maybe even act a little afc. Don't try to convince her logically yore not a player. It's best to build comfort and make her feel special.

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PostPosted: Sat Dec 07, 2013 2:31 pm 
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The basics with this kind of girl is taking things at 40%-50% of what you are used to in your routine. Give twice as much space as you usually would, call half as often etc.

This is what needs the ->slow approach, I guess you aren't familiar with that :3
Analyse the target thoroughly first then make your move remember for the next time.

I don't know if you can get back in at this point, you already made her feel a lot of discomfort.
Instead of carefully lighting the candle for dinner you pretty much burned down the entire table.

Maybe this will help, I don't know to be honest:
Back-off for now, do something nice for her, earn her trust by making her feel comfortable and wanted around you, but always demand that little extra sugar for yourself a little more each encounter(kino, flirting whatever turns you on)
Once you feel you've earned her strike full force again! And don't look back.
Its tedious work with these girls and if you just want one for your bed don't try! Its a waste of your precious time.
Mission time: at max 2-3 Weeks (see its weeks not days ->slow approach)

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PostPosted: Sat Dec 07, 2013 7:07 pm 
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Hey thx. I agree with both of you. she is asian tho so super conservative. i think i would have to wait for months until shes more receptive to comfort building cuz now shes new to college and very attach to friend.

My plan is to be as far away as possible and get some of our mutual friends to spread good words about me and wait for the right moment to get back. I know this is super AFC haha.


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