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PostPosted: Tue Dec 03, 2013 1:08 am 
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Hey guys here's what's up not a big deal I just wanna get some advice on this beforehand. I was talking to this girl yesterday, and I got called back to work couldn't reply busy all day today couldn't talk. So tonight I txt her picking up the convo where we left off and was gonna set something up for this thurs or fri which I know I should have got right to the point that's my fault, but she hasn't replied yet. My question is if she doesn't reply to this do I send a txt say tomorrow afternoon saying something hey thursday night 10pm such and such place? Be direct and to th point about it?


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PostPosted: Tue Dec 03, 2013 4:41 am 
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i always have a motto, if she doesn't reply text her the next day, if she doesn't reply then, text her in 1-2 weeks, if she doesn't reply then just delete her number

but when you do text her be direct about it, because its a chance she doesn't give you the chance to ask if you don't

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PostPosted: Tue Dec 03, 2013 4:50 am 
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I have my own way of handling these things... I generally go with the DGF method: Don't Give a Fuck(I made that up, you like?).

For me text game just isn't important. I realised if you care you think about it too much and start tallying up who text who and who text last. The only thing I will take note of is if a woman clearly isn't trying to reply to me or taking her sweet time(An hour or more, etc.)

Generally if a woman doesn't reply straight away she's just playing hard to get. If she takes an hour on average she's trying not to come across as too interested. If she takes longer I lose interest in maintaining a conversation with her and cut her off with something like "Heh, well enjoy doing X/Y. Hopefully you'll get Z out of it!" When that happens just push to meet up with her. Set a date, ask if she wants to head out or meet up. Keep it short and sweet. If she doesn't reply just don't message her. That's a red flag. If she replies but makes an excuse don't assume it's just an excuse, she might just be busy. Just wait a day or two and see if she messages you, if she doesn't just ping her.


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PostPosted: Tue Dec 03, 2013 5:01 am 
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Girls do this at times to seem like a challenge, or she could just be flaking... but either way don't be too concerned what she thinks. Just hit her up in the next few days... I would try hitting her up 4 times every few days, if she continues to ignore you move onto the next girl... no use in chasing.

Don't think too hard about what you're gonna text her. do you feel comfortable asking her out yet? Or do you feel you need to flirt with her a lil more to build up some tension? It all depends.

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PostPosted: Tue Dec 03, 2013 5:11 am 
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Thanks for the advice guys! Here's some more background info. We talk a bit our convo's are spread out so there's no neediness. We've gone out out once went great she texted me the next day to say thanks, and that she had a great time. We were supposed to go out last fri, but she asked if she could reschedule because of work, and apologized. So yesterday we were talking then I got called back to work, and couldn't reply so I txt her tonight no reply, so I tend to think she's giving it back to me she's done that before when I didn't get back to her. My txt convos with her are sporadic, but we've talked quite a bit the last couple days, so I think I'll let it be for tmrw, and talk to her wed or thurs, and set up something for friday.


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