Hej guys,

Few days ago I met a girl and I initially thought she was interested:

She engages physical contacts (like holding my hand after a joke or pushing me);
Looking at me;
Making jokes about the facts we are going to get married;
She even proposes me to go we her to a "banquet";
When I put my hand on a chair I can see she's trying to get her closer to mine;
Etc.

I thought she was also dating me when we were eachother with friends but she refuses texting me, or even texting me back something better than "ok ok" "lol" since few days. I know she likes texting people but she doesn't engage a single texting conversation with me... When I try to engage it, she barely answers with an evasive one. Well, she totaly answers me like she doesn't want talking to me...

Friday night, we see eachother with other people and IOI's were still there (them enumerated before) . However, I learned that she dates another guy since few weeks (+ she likes telling it loudly)... I don't how to deal with this situation. Maybe I should ask her a REAL DATE without friends and family... Yeah, she's my sister in law's best friend (they are every damn time eachother). It's hard to handle this situation because she refuses having a SMS conversations with me (even if she has SMS conversations with her dating guy) and I fell unconfortable asking her to go out because my sister in law will know and every other family members too. The best way I thougt was to have SMS conve with her and trying to find out more IOI's and showing her that I might be very interrested + eventually setting a date, but this way seem impossible according to the fact that she doesn't like texting me...

I fell like I'll quit really soon with this opposite IOI's + big IOD's + the fact that she's my sister in law's best friend

What do you guys think?

Thanks a lot,

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- Reywal

Texts are the most fail method in building attraction.
Take her out on a date alone. Plan more than one place to go to during the same day.

Thanks,

I wrote her this morning:

"Hey, let's see each other this friday night as talked before! Alright?"

I haven't receive an answer yet. I'm pretty sure she received it but refuses to write me back...

From my point of view, I think it's a clear IOD and I should get over her before seeming too needy even if she seems attached when we are togheter.

What do you guys think about this solution: Hoping she comes back by engaging a conversation or proposing a date. Otherwise I'll stop texting her and continue living like she has never existed?

Thanks a lot,

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- Reywal