Hey guys here's what's up just wanna get some thoughts I was talking to this girl today. I've done everything right so far, but today we talked a bit she was telling me about her work assignment it was actually pretty interesting so I asked her about it a bit. The convo started off I was teasing her she liked it then she started swearing at me (jokingly) after that I read over the convo I'm definitely not friendzoned, but just to be safe I'm not gonna talk to her for a day or two let some tension build up then set up a date and escalate like a motherfucker.

As always any thoughts,advice is appreciated. Thanks!!

IMO I don't think games like "not gonna talk to her for a day or two" have any relevance at all. If it will keep you away from being too needy and a try-hard, by all means continue with your plan. It is better than to push too hard.

I don't really know what it is I'm doing right, but I have never ever been friendzoned by any girl in my entire life. Maybe it is due to honesty - I know what I want, and I don't try to hide it. It also plays out well with "qualification" (I think it is a term in the pickup community) - girls need to know why you like them. So there are only two options in my world: Either a girl is interested, or not. There is nothing in between. I think you should have the same attitude. My advice is to be more direct and ask her out on a date. If she says no, move on to the next girl.

I agree with you the thing is I usually talk to this girl a little bit everyday. I'm careful not to make myself too available though. We were supposed to go out, but she had to reschedule whoch is no big deal, so trying to set up a date right away might be a bit needy. I'm bisy with work out of town the next couple days so I thought give it a day or 2 break then set something up.

Thanks for the advice!! I appreciate it!

ya just keep doing what you've been doing and don't even worry about fucking up. just enjoy the process.

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