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every year around this time, I start feeling sorry for myself because I start realizing what a pathetic loser I am.
my main problem is....I am not growing. I am aging, but I feel like I am "stuck"...I cant grow socially.
I am a pathetic loser. 28 and have never touched a girl. I feel like there is no hope for me. time is running out, I am not always gonna be young, and besides, how long do we live anyway, 70, 80?
Yes, the advice given on this forum has helped me tremendously to understand female mentality. yes, I have had minor chit chat with a few girls, even some ioi's, but that's it.
when I go to parties or social gathering, I dont talk to anybody. I just stand there like a dumbass. I come up with excuses why I cant talk to someone. I have approach anxiety, I dont approach because I imagine myself getting blown out by the girl. Even if I do approach (which is rare), I am not an interesting conversationalist. I am a thinker, I dont like to talk, I like to do things.
professionally, I am doing ok, but if I could overcome my fears, I could grow much more professionally as well. I would take more risks, etc.
I could write pages and pages but I know there are a lot of wise people here that know exactly where I am coming from. no need to explain any further.
Any advice?
unfortunately "just do it" "you have to force yourself" and "dont get anxious" dont work on me.
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I have not failed 10,000 times. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work. - Edison
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