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PostPosted: Thu Nov 28, 2013 11:44 pm 
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I met this beautiful girl from school a few weeks ago and we really hitted it off great. We didn't see eachother that often, but we texted 24/7 and had a couple of dates, and the tone was really good. She seemed to like me a lot and she got really jealous when I was with other girls. A couple of days ago she asked if I wanted to come over because she was home alone. I did, and we had fun, but after a while she suddenly became really cold, like she was avoiding me when I was trying to kino or kiss her. That's when I went home. The day after she seemed kinda irritated when I sent her texts, and she didn't talk to me. Two days later I got a text where she was saying that she was not ready for a relationship right now, and she had to figure out things on her own. I was really shocked because things had changed so suddenly.

Right be4 she met me, she broke up with her BF because he was cheating on her. Now I hear rumors that she still has feelings for her ex, even though she told me she was over him... Is he the reason why she left me? What did I do wrong? I really want to win her back, does anyone have any advices?


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PostPosted: Fri Nov 29, 2013 1:31 am 
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The bf thing could be a big factor, also it's possible you're escalation wasnt smooth, could be a combination of both.

Stop texting so much, over texting is needy, back it off.

Freeze out and regame.

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PostPosted: Fri Nov 29, 2013 3:17 am 
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Mate I was in your exact situation. Its almost spooky reading this its so close to a past situation of mine.
All you can do is like Vic Park Guy says freeze out and regame. I made the mistake of trying to talk to the girl when things were going downhill. I'm gonna warn you if you're with a girl that's hung up on her ex 9 times outta 10 you're dead in the water. I went out with this girl things went great leading up to the date date went well, but she was so hung up on him that she picked out every possible fault of mine she possibly could and used it as a reason to chase her ex. Later I found out she was txting him while we we're out. With that being said if this girl is important enough that you're willing to put up with shit like that then go for it if not move on, but for now all you can do is freeze out and regame. If you try and talk to her its gonna go bad for you.
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PostPosted: Fri Nov 29, 2013 9:18 am 
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Ok, but for how long should I freeze? And by regame, do you mean like trying to talk to her again and ask her out for a casual date?


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PostPosted: Fri Nov 29, 2013 1:30 pm 
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Ok, but for how long should I freeze? And by regame, do you mean like trying to talk to her again and ask her out for a casual date?
I'd say freeze her out and let her make next contact. Which if she's anything like the girls I done this with and you have her on fb when she wants to talk again she'll probably start liking whatever you post on fb. In my experience the girl will do something along the lines of ping you or like your shit on fb to get your attention, but leave it up to you to start talking again.if that's the case don't react to the 1st like or ping let her sit and stew a while. If she texts you same thing let her stew a while that ohh fuck I lost him feeling will work in your favor. When you get talking again don't ask her out right away make her I guess re-qualify herself. Why would you want to go out with her again after she pulled sh*t like that sort of deal. Don't be an asshole with her, but take a stand up for yourself attitude let her know she can't dump you and have you back whenever she wants.

I'm speaking from a recent experience on that and it worked for me, but again that's only my 2 cents. Good luck!


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Ok, but for how long should I freeze? And by regame, do you mean like trying to talk to her again and ask her out for a casual date?
I'd say freeze her out and let her make next contact. Which if she's anything like the girls I done this with and you have her on fb when she wants to talk again she'll probably start liking whatever you post on fb. In my experience the girl will do something along the lines of ping you or like your shit on fb to get your attention, but leave it up to you to start talking again.if that's the case don't react to the 1st like or ping let her sit and stew a while. If she texts you same thing let her stew a while that ohh fuck I lost him feeling will work in your favor. When you get talking again don't ask her out right away make her I guess re-qualify herself. Why would you want to go out with her again after she pulled sh*t like that sort of deal. Don't be an asshole with her, but take a stand up for yourself attitude let her know she can't dump you and have you back whenever she wants.

I'm speaking from a recent experience on that and it worked for me, but again that's only my 2 cents. Good luck!
Thanks man! But if she dosen't contact me back, should I just drop her? And one more thing. I guess we're going too see each other at school like in the hallways most likely, but I feel things are kinda awkward between us now. Should I greet her and say hi, or just ignore/avoid her?


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PostPosted: Fri Nov 29, 2013 6:46 pm 
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no worries! Best thing I can tell you is keep your options open so if she doesn't contact you, you can next her and move right on to the next one. However from the bit I read here you can bet your ass she will contact you it may take a while it might not, but she will. As far as meeting her in the hall just be cool about it don't go out of your way to talk to her or see her, but if you do see her just act unaffected, and don't be a jerk if she says hi say hi back and carry on about your way. Whole thing boils down to being cool about it and whatever you do don't be needy when she does contact you again.


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PostPosted: Sat Nov 30, 2013 12:35 pm 
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Crystal clear, she wanted to use you as a rebound and then felt guilty for wanting to cheat on her boyfriend.
Cut contact for now, and if by any means she contacts you, be casual (take her out and have fun), then try again.


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