Ok so I waited 3 1/2 weeks with no contact, got my strategies together and then called on the pretense of her having a lot of stuff still at my house.

We talked for about 5 mins shooting the shit about life then talking about Xbox vs. Ps4 and it seemed pretty normal...

At the end of the call I say that I'm off the next few days (obviously Thanksgiving) and I'm going out and maybe we can meet up or hang...

She hits me with: "Uh, well I'm really trying not to be in contact with you so sorry I can't..."

Bout two hours later I get a text saying: "Going by my mom tomorrow, I can pass by and pick up my things. Will you be there?" I actually won't be home and I don't want her in the crib without me there, I also would like to be there to employ whatever strategy I can to try and get her back...

So I humbly ask: What's my next move?? Detailed help if available?

Again I have decided that I want to try and get her back and also I haven't answered the text back or even clicked on it...

God I'll lose three GFs before I get some advice over here...

OK, to update, after she texts me I texted her back this morning and she wanted to come to my house while I was at work to pick up her things, but I said to wait until we can find a time where I can be home because I don't really want people in my house while I'm not there (If she decides to bring someone to help her move stuff)...She texts back "Well your the one who said come get my things" (Which I didn't I said lets schedule a time that works for both us)...

That's where it stands, still need help with my next move based on her response turning me down on hanging out...

Well obviously if you want her back you need a face-to-face meet, how you get that barely matters.

When you do regame her like you only just met for the first time. Don't get all bitchy and beta on her, confidence kino etc be a man make her pussy wet.

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I appreciate the advice,I guess I'm also asking do I STILL respect her asking for no contact...Do I go back to the 3-4 weeks of no contact, pretending I don't give a shit, or do I pursue a face to face contact final stand?

Face to face. No fears, no worries. Remember the lessons of the dark triad (specifically the Machiavellianism)

Basic tips:

Kino (touch her hip/face/arm with your hand)
Make good eye contact when you're speaking with her but look away, distracted, when she talks
Don't be afraid to kiss her again. What do you really have to lose?
When you two broke up you should've said something like, "I'll always love you."
If she gives you any more shit just say "So?" or "You're just saying that because you miss me."
Keep pressing.

If you do f-close her then just say to her, "Oh god, we shouldn't do this again."

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The ultimate lesson of psychoanalysis is that human life is never "just life": we are possessed by the strange drive to enjoy life in excess, attached to a surplus which derails the ordinary run of things.
-Slavoj Zizek

I appreciate the help...It seemed to work, we even went out and ate like it was all good had her laffing the whole time...I went against my instinct to say anything about missing her etc. and just played it cool...Going by her crib later tonight, I can taste it now...

Any final advice on this aspect...I'm going there with the mindset that I'm reconcile banging, but maybe I should play it down? In any event glad I got some pointers...

Just relax. You're the rock, she's the flower. Emulate this guy (in the back, with the beard, not playing poker):
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The ultimate lesson of psychoanalysis is that human life is never "just life": we are possessed by the strange drive to enjoy life in excess, attached to a surplus which derails the ordinary run of things.
-Slavoj Zizek

LMAO, that's mad game right there...