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PostPosted: Wed Nov 27, 2013 4:21 am 
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...while riding my dirt bike in the Arizona desert. Long story short a rock got caught in my front brake rotor and I went over the bars in 4th gear pinned to which is around 50mph. I ended up with a dislocated left hip and a fracture in the general area... Now instead of bitching about how shitty situation I'm in, I wanna use it to my advantage and use some pointers. For now I won't even be able to walk probably for a couple weeks... Sooooooooo text game/online dating? I already had a profile on pof. So far I put an edit in my profile that says I'll be chained to a bed for a while because of an offroad accident. Do you guys think I should say something sexual and playful about this "chained to a bed" thing? I seriously won't be able to have sex for a while anyways, especially with the girl on top lol, and I dont even know how girls would approach this.. Should I even say a thing in my profile about this whole thing? Also once I get a little better I'll be getting around on crutches, I even heard about people using canes in a situation like this. So this brings me to a pretty unique way of peacocking. How could I use it to my advantage, spray paint my crutches with some bad as colors? Hang some golden chains on them and be gangsta? Just kidding about the second thing lol I'm just trying to make the best of a shitty situation. My profession/job is physical, I'm an ironworker. It doesn't look like I'll be getting back to work anytime soon. Which means a shitload of time on my hands. What do you guys think?


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PostPosted: Wed Nov 27, 2013 4:28 am 
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Dude... still go out. Use those crutches to your advantage man. I broke my foot a few years ago and girls would ask me what happened all the time. Sympathy pussy man.


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I was in your exact situation back in april. Broke my pelvis in three places, 6 broken ribs, punctured lung. Spent two weeks in the hospital with a chest tube and a catheter. Through two months of PT I was able to go back to work. (I own a off road fab shop). Personally, I just didn't even worry about women. My GF atvthd time cheated on me while I was in the hospital. I had one of my nurses making house calls to watch movies with me and a few other girls I was talking to. But I was in so much pain all the time I finally just gave it up. I think I went like three months without getting laid. It wasn't so bad after a few weeks. I just watched a shit ton of Netflix and fucked off online. My buddy Branden lives out there in AZ and shreds. He broke his leg right before I had my accident riding his KX. He couldn't ride but he still messed around with some honeys and mobbed his truck. Didn't really seem to slow down his sex life, he said. Obviously everyones injuries are different.


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PostPosted: Wed Nov 27, 2013 4:39 am 
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Yea that's the whole idea. And since the story behind it isn't too lame I really don't have to lie about what happened.
Are there any specific approaches/openers you used? I know that having crutches would also get girls curious and have them open first so that's good.


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I was in your exact situation back in april. Broke my pelvis in three places, 6 broken ribs, punctured lung. Spent two weeks in the hospital with a chest tube and a catheter. Through two months of PT I was able to go back to work. (I own a off road fab shop). Personally, I just didn't even worry about women. My GF atvthd time cheated on me while I was in the hospital. I had one of my nurses making house calls to watch movies with me and a few other girls I was talking to. But I was in so much pain all the time I finally just gave it up. I think I went like three months without getting laid. It wasn't so bad after a few weeks. I just watched a shit ton of Netflix and fucked off online. My buddy Branden lives out there in AZ and shreds. He broke his leg right before I had my accident riding his KX. He couldn't ride but he still messed around with some honeys and mobbed his truck. Didn't really seem to slow down his sex life, he said. Obviously everyones injuries are different.
How's your pelvis now by the way? Pins, plates, screws - the whole nine yeards?? Does it hurt at all? I know mine is fractured at the joint where femur comes into the hip. And that sucks about your girlfriend... Is this how you got into pickup?


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I was in your exact situation back in april. Broke my pelvis in three places, 6 broken ribs, punctured lung. Spent two weeks in the hospital with a chest tube and a catheter. Through two months of PT I was able to go back to work. (I own a off road fab shop). Personally, I just didn't even worry about women. My GF atvthd time cheated on me while I was in the hospital. I had one of my nurses making house calls to watch movies with me and a few other girls I was talking to. But I was in so much pain all the time I finally just gave it up. I think I went like three months without getting laid. It wasn't so bad after a few weeks. I just watched a shit ton of Netflix and fucked off online. My buddy Branden lives out there in AZ and shreds. He broke his leg right before I had my accident riding his KX. He couldn't ride but he still messed around with some honeys and mobbed his truck. Didn't really seem to slow down his sex life, he said. Obviously everyones injuries are different.
How's your pelvis now by the way? Pins, plates, screws - the whole nine yeards?? Does it hurt at all? I know mine is fractured at the joint where femur comes into the hip. And that sucks about your girlfriend... Is this how you got into pickup?
I was actually so lean that my muscles kept everything from displacing. So no surgery. I do have on leg that is shorter now. Which has begun to show issues in my spine. And I'm not sure it us due to whip lash or my spinal misalignment. But I now am showing early signs of brachial plexus. Which means I have nerve damage in my neck that is causing parcialparalysis of my trep (muscle deficiency). But I don't notice any pain anymore. My ligament stretched pretty bad when my pelvis broke so it took a while for my muscles to taks over holing that joint in place. Some times I'll move wrong and it'll pop funny or I'll get a shooting pain but over all i's not noticeable. Just work your ass off in PT and do what they tell you. Also, don't be a bitch. They told me i'd have a walker for 6mo and wouldn't go back to wirk for a year. I started working a few hours a day in my shop starting around the second week in June. I was back full time and being active by the second week of August. Don't be a bitch, don't be lazy, don't get depressed.


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And that sucks about your girlfriend... Is this how you got into pickup?
No, I got into PUA crap a few years ago but started getting on here to pass the time and just kept coming back to help guys. I am actually more a natural than a PUA. I don't really use any structured routines or material. But yeah, I was pretty messed up finding out she was fucking some other dude while I was hospitalized. To really top it with a cherry. I actually had my accident right in front of her. Her friends wanted to go out so I dropped her off at her house instead of her spending the night. As I was pulling away from her house a 20yo kid in a truck t-boned my driver door at 60mph... never even saw him coming. Had to be extracted from my car. Was pretty horrific for her to see I'm sure. She said she thought I died. Guess she wouldn't have cared.


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And that sucks about your girlfriend... Is this how you got into pickup?
No, I got into PUA crap a few years ago but started getting on here to pass the time and just kept coming back to help guys. I am actually more a natural than a PUA. I don't really use any structured routines or material. But yeah, I was pretty messed up finding out she was fucking some other dude while I was hospitalized. To really top it with a cherry. I actually had my accident right in front of her. Her friends wanted to go out so I dropped her off at her house instead of her spending the night. As I was pulling away from her house a 20yo kid in a truck t-boned my driver door at 60mph... never even saw him coming. Had to be extracted from my car. Was pretty horrific for her to see I'm sure. She said she thought I died. Guess she wouldn't have cared.


If that's the case then fuck that bitch. She doesn't deserve anyone to care about her....

How did you get to where you are with natural game? That's what I'm really interested improving. Canned stuff is just a backup or something to use for quick inspiration in my opinion. Plus I'm only into pua to get into something longterm - i think natural is the way to go.


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I often wonder thst myself. On thing is I'm an above average looking guy. I have cool hobbies and I have done well for myself. Beyond that I don't know where I learned it. I had three pretty average looking girlfriends in high school. One in college and then I married the fifth girl I'd even slept with. She was smokin hot. But had I not drounded her in gifts and been super romantic. I'd never have gotten her. I was pretty AFC at the time but she came into my shop wanting some work done. I fell head over heals and as you can imagine, we had a lot in common. Hot chick into jeeps with a totally filthy/kinky side. Sign me up! Then she drove me broke. Very materialistic woman. The princess syndrome to the tenth power.

Anyway. When I split with her, I had a real chip on my shoulder. I didn't give a fuck about women. All I wanted to do was get laid. For some reason I was good at it too. Read up on some of my posts sometime. Maybe it'll shine some light. Idk.


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Anyway. When I split with her, I had a real chip on my shoulder. I didn't give a fuck about women. All I wanted to do was get laid. For some reason I was good at it too. Read up on some of my posts sometime. Maybe it'll shine some light. Idk.
I'll checkem out!!! My biggest problem is just running out of things to say when the girl doesn't contribute to the convo... Approach anxiety too but that goes away after the very few first approaches of the night.


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PostPosted: Wed Nov 27, 2013 4:51 pm 
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I've been there mate not as badly as you, but you can totally use this to your advantage. Paint your crutches put some motocross stickers on them. Imo makes you sound more legit. Not only that, but an injury with a story like that to go along with it gives you a serious badboy edge that women love. Ie Travis Pastrana. Rock it and use it to your advantage for all its worth. Good on you for seeing the good in a shit situation!


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I've been there mate not as badly as you, but you can totally use this to your advantage. Paint your crutches put some motocross stickers on them. Imo makes you sound more legit. Not only that, but an injury with a story like that to go along with it gives you a serious badboy edge that women love. Ie Travis Pastrana. Rock it and use it to your advantage for all its worth. Good on you for seeing the good in a shit situation!

Tried it on a couple girls at the mall, totally gets them talking :)


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