I was out last night and it was probably my best night because of an issue I had. I approached 7 sets and each set was a group not one on one with a girl. SO I'm running A2 material and 4 out of 7 sets one of the girls in the group's would begin asking me rapport questions (where r u from asked this twice; what is ur major; do u come here often lol) u know comfort stuff before I even finish A2 stuff and before I even try to qualify the girls. And two of the four times I got asked by the girl who wasn't the target and It makes the situation awkward cuz I'm starting to build comfort with someone who isn't my target and at the same time I don't want too seem rude and brush off the questions. SO how do I deal with a situation where I'm building high value and still have some a2 but then a girl from the group tries to build rapport with ME before I even begin to move into A3? Hand writing sucks sorry I'm posting on a phone

Just fucking talk dude. If the girl is asking questions about you... SHE LIKES YOU! Don't worry about what "phase" you're in. That's all just a waste of time. You're just confusing yourself. You're taking the "road map" way too much to heart. If you like the girl and the girl likes you... you have sex. Stop thinking so hard about it.

Will someone actually answer my question.

I gave you an answer. It might not be the answer that you want to hear... but it's what you need to hear.

I pretty much agree with Majikal on this one. This is the problem with routines and planned out stuff - if the girl doesn't "play along" exactly how you want, then you have to be able to think on your feet and change it around. If you can't do that, then you're a bit screwed.

It can be useful to have an idea of all this stuff - ie; know what rapport is, know how to escalate etc. But don't try to preplan and stick to it rigidly. Be aware of it so that you know vaguely where you should be aiming for, but you sometimes might miss out bits, other times you might spend ages on that bit and less time on another bit.

I mean, to give you a very generic answer to your specific question, I suppose if the girl is asking questions, you can brush off the questions in a jokey manner. "What do you do?" Well say something like "Oh I'm a superhero, the pay isn't great but it's really rewarding". You're not answering, you're qualifying her slightly by making her work hard for the information and showing that you're building value to an extent by showing you don't need to try and impress her by giving your actual job title.

But whilst this might help the specific situation, I would say focus more on a mentality you're taking into a conversation rather than the individual parts of the conversation.

You don't need to qualify a girl if she is already into you, it's meant for disarming bitch shields by establishing higher value. If she was dragging you to bed would you still be trying to qualify her on the stairs?

Well people say all the time that if you fail to qualify you get buyers remorse and I want to avoid that bc in the past flaking happened too me all the time so this is a serious issue of mine that requires specific responses. And even if she likes me and I show interest she might flake bc. She feels I'm only into looks

Let them ask the questions. Tell the girl you like you need her help to pick out a drink or want to show her something or whatever. Then qualify in isolation. You don't qualify her around other people anyways so you just have to go for isolation as usual