TLDNR version [ex miami travel fling is goddess, returning to the us fling starts up again over phone, one week before going to miami she starts ignoring me, help!


Okay its a bit of a complicated story but I'll simplify it.

First off I'm an Aussie, 23yrs, confident and daring.
At the end of 2011 I was travelling in the US and had quite a lot of luck.
One particular girl I met was an 18yo from Miami and we hit it off big time. (20 now)

Who is she
She's an ex-cheerleader, fitness-freak, latina, super-hot girl with a fetish for being spanked and whipped. I never got the chance to spank her or whip her because I only found out about it afterwards -- we spoke a lot after I left the US. We were basically a couple over SPAM for a whole year though I did meet up with other girls and she probably had a fling with a dude here and there, or maybe not. We spoke pretty dirty so maybe I was able to keep her entertained enough when I made her do things to herself. Who knows. On top of this she has a closet full of naughty costumes because she used to work in a costume store and has a massive girl-boner for halloween. Stimulation wise she is still perfect. She's much smarter than I am - she's studying accounting and she has enough energy to match mine. Also our conversations just mesh perfectly. She's not a gold digger, she's not superficial, and still she's gorgeous and she can do the splits.

Anyway as you can imagine after about a year of skyping it was pretty much killing both of us not to be together and it ended quite abruptly because of it. As soon as it ended I smacked myself over the head and booked a flight to miami one week ahead, trying to be spontaneous and adversity-defying. She told me to cancel it because at this stage she was hating me for taking so long and fortunately I was able to lie and say the booking was a mistake and got all my money back.

Cut to now. I came to NY a couple of months ago to take part in an internship. This was a safe way for me to come to America again, meet more beautiful American women of course! but laced with the chance of getting back together with an absolute goddess and I mean goddess. If you can imagine everything I described above but better thats what she is. I'm not a gambler/adam lyons/sinn/carlos duma I'm just a regular bloke and this goddess would actually make me the happiest person on the planet. I would never in a million years be able to turn this girl down.

which is what makes this problem so URGENT. And I mean urgent 24 hours please help me god give me a break urgent.

THE DILEMA:
I arrived in NY and texted her the next day playing some games with her asking if she knew where I was. She knew I was in the US because I'd bought an american cell phone but anyway we had fun like that and it built back up to almost what it used to be when we were skyping. we spoke on the phone and she straight away started apologising for letting it end and went on about how she thought about me every day crap like that (could probably call bullshit on this but what was I going to say, shuttup you hate me?)
clean phone conversations would go for hours then turn in to ridiculously dirty ones where i was getting her to do nasty things to herself in her kitchen and texting me nasty things while she was out at college. We texted all day night and when we spoke it was always at least an hour and a half long. The longest was a 5 hour conversation that just flew by
Anywho - almost straight away once it was back on I organised with her that I should come to Miami over the thanksgiving break because she wouldn't have classes/exams then. I booked it as cheap as I could but Miami is expensive and I'm not staying with her because she still lives with her family. Basically because I tried to make it as cheap as I could its all non refundable. Dumbarse move.
Shutting up and getting to the point now-

About to two weeks and a half before my trip to miami she started ignoring my texts. I made sure not to start barraging her with texts cause I knew she would eventually message me. Its so hard not to pick up the phone and just dial relentlessly and send a million wtf text messages but its worth it in the end -
One week later (1.5 weeks before miami) I get this text /
Her: "Hey, so I know you're probably wondering why you haven't heard from me these past few days, but the truth is I did poorly on my calculus test. Which means that I could be at risk of failing the class if I slip again. I was thinking if you could possibly move your flight to December instead, since I'd be done with school and my time with you wouldn't be as limited. Let me know what you think. Hope you're good x"

Then I kind of lost my cool. This text is from memory because the cheap cell phone I have doesn't keep outbox messages so I can't see what I wrote.

Me: Look, if you're sure thats what you want I can book flights for a later date. Money is not whats important to me but you have to be absolutely certain that thats what you want.
.. no reply.. called her... she doesn't answer
Me: Okay I had a look and I can't change it. Its non refundable, I have to come to Miami but we can make it work. I'll just see you a couple of days. Give me a call and we can work something out"
.. no reply for a bit.. just left it hoping she would come to her senses

Finally her: "Look, I don't want you to misunderstand what I'm saying but things don't always turn out the way I want them to. My goal was to do the best on the first few exams so that when u came I'd have enough time to spend with you rather than worry about my classes. I've worked really hard on this class to lose focus now.. I can't risk failing it because not only will my grades suffer, but my parents will flip. I'm not saying that I don't wanna see you, I'm just saying that things are really complicated for me at the moment.. I didn't think that your visit would coincide with my upcoming test either"

So I tester her almost immediately just saying "Can you call me?"
No call. Later I texted something like "Look I'm not trying to mess up your exams. I've paid for the trip so I have to come to Miami. I'm not annoyed that you want to change the date but I am annoyed that you're too scared to call me"
Still no call or text

so a few days before I left I sent her one last text:
"peach, hope you're ok. just wanted to let you know I'm going to be in miami anyway but lets stay in touch and see if we can meet somewhere in december. hope the exams are going well" (peach is my pet name for her because her butt looks like a peach haha)
The intent of this was to make her think I was totally not bothered and whatever happens will happen to alleviate some tension.
The truth is though I am completely annoyed! this sucks

I just arrived in Miami today and I'm trying to work out how I can use the unique advantage of being in Miami to my advantage now to win her back.

yes she has become suddenly an ultimate bitch, but despite all this she is a goddess. I could spend 10 days in Miami chasing after other girls to make myself feel better.
Theres plenty more fish in the sea yada yada. But I can chose ordinary fish anywhere. I have this unique 10 day window in which to land the biggest and best fish of my life. After which the window is gone.
I am in miami staying 10 minutes away from where she is.

So there is the situation.
I am in Miami 10 minutes from her, and yet she's ignoring me. No call, no text. Nothing!
I will do whatever it takes! I know she's in class tomorrow then she's off until next week because of Thanksgiving.

My friend who is very good at gaming girls has told me to just leave it after the last message. It shows that I'm not trying to be pushy and then if ignore her shell text me.
But from where I'm sitting the time is ticking and soon I'll be leaving Miami. I need something creative that will light a real fire under her butt.

If anyone has a solution and it works I will actually fly to you and shake your hand because to me this looks like the situation can't be fixed. Just try and think of it outside of the situation though- an australian guy flies to miami to win back the girl of his dreams. i can think of anything from any romantic movies that would work. any solutions?

-also should I just go to her house. It feels a bit stalkerish to me to actually arrive at her doorstop and knock.
-I could leave her a pretty decent letter that won't read too corny but a letter at all so early on after the dilemma has hit would be too corny in itself...