I'm really confused by that one. I was at this cool dance bar w/ a bunch of my friends and we went out for a cig. Then this cute girl sitting two seats next to me asked me about something I wore that she liked and started a conversation. We had a really fun light conversation which I know she enjoined cause she ended up taking my FB.

Day after I sent her a pm saying

Hey glad I ran into you last night you seem cool

Just to spark a conversation, but nothing in response for a day now (I know she logged in already).

Usually I'd move on but there's something about her. What would you send after getting nothing in response in order to spark the attraction back without looking desperate?

She was pushing hard at the time, but my opinion is, if you didn't take advantage of it by getting into the conversation and finding something passionate to talk about, and setting up a day 2, or bouncing with her and all that jazz, there won't really be any reason to continue the interaction via Facebook. You should have got her number. She did all the work. There's no reason for her to be that interested in you. As the guy you should have taken charge, got the contact details, talked about when to meet next, etc.

Don't get too hung up over this one - see if you can illicit a response if you like. But take it as a learning experience to be more proactive IN THE MOMENT. With women, it's all about "seize the day".

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