I don’t know if my sticking point is common but I need help breaking through it. All my life I have been under the impression that the only girls I am able to “get” are those that that maintain eye contact with me when I pass by. I have always been peacocking, and because of my physique people notice my presence.

I am now in the mindset where I am not to particular about the outcome. I am fine getting rejected as it is part of mastering the game. I have done my readings, and I have watched countless of videos. The problem is applying it.

My approach anxiety isn’t as strong as it used to be, what I find is limiting me is my motivation. Logically speaking I should be very motivated, since I do not have many beautiful people in my life and I would like that to start. I always find a reason not to go out and do it.

What are some techniques you guys use to break through that barrier? I plan to give 100 bucks to a friend and take 10 back for each approach.

I believe that there 2 kinds of AA.

U have the concious one , where your mind goes " damn she is hot , oh no she is looking back at me look away look away , just eject .... " This kind is the one most often adressed as AA , most posts on forums are tips how to overcome this kind of AA. ( 3 sec. rule , getting yourself in the "zone" with some music , ... )

The second one is the subconscious kind , a defencive reaction of your body , call it a twisted form of spidey-sense. Most extreme cases can be seen in depressed ppl , they lose the ability to talk to basicly anyone. In Pua's and Afc alike there is a lighter form at work , wich i believe is caused by too low self esteem. When you find yourself in a situation that your self esteem doesnt live up to , u will feel uncomfortable , basicly a social shutdown.

The solution to this second kind is actually rly simple , its SUCCES. When u close 3 women a night u build heaps of confidence. Thats is why tips to the fist kind of AA also solve the second kind (on the long run).

However sometimes the subconscious kind is so strong that no matter what , u wont get the chance to close. Thats why i suggest to do some non PUA related confidence /self esteem building.

keruli


WARNING : these are my own toughts , not a "quotation" from one of the PUA-bibles, comments and remarks are greatly appreciated.