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 Post subject: need 2nd date advice
PostPosted: Sun Nov 24, 2013 11:36 pm 
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Hey guys here's my situation. I went out with this girl a couple days ago we went to a classy place had dinner drinks it went great. Here's the issue I'd like some advice on. I have a boxing banquet coming up at a real upperclass place its a suit and tie deal. We both box its one of main connecting points. However on our date we got talking about horseback riding, and I said I'd take her out riding next time we hung out.

Now this is where I'm kinda stumped we've been out to a nice resteraunt already should I ask her to this banquet which I'm most likely gonna be winning an award at. Or should I try and set up something a little more exciting such as horseback riding given the fact our 1st date was at a nice resteraunt?

I know I'm most likely overthinking this, but as always any advice is appreciated. Thanks!!


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 Post subject: Re: need 2nd date advice
PostPosted: Mon Nov 25, 2013 12:11 am 
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The banquet is cool but warning if u just met this girl and take her to something where you are getting an award, strangely enough it could be a DLV because she may assume you have no other women in your life. Congratulations on being up for the award BTW :D

But overall the girl probably wants to get down with you, just as you do with her. YOU are all the excitement she needs, or wants. Stop trying to impress her and get her to a private location.


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 Post subject: Re: need 2nd date advice
PostPosted: Mon Nov 25, 2013 1:13 am 
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Thanks mate! Ya I see what you mean about dlv by taking her to the banquet funny thing is I have another girl that wants me to take her. Not sure if you saw my update about how the date went in my other thread, but it was pretty solid.
My main problem now is I almost feel like I'm losing my edge which also could be me putting too much thought into this whole thing. What I'm thinking feel free to tell me where you think I can improve. I'm thinking wednesday I'll talk to her and set something up for saturday, but I'll only say dress warm I won't tell her what we're doing then I'll take her out riding. That way there's some excitment/mystery. Then from there say go for dinner escalate and take it from there.


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 Post subject: Re: need 2nd date advice
PostPosted: Mon Nov 25, 2013 3:07 am 
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I actually just had an idea let me know what you think of this. She's relatively new in town. We were talking about some of the bars she mentioned one particular bar that she likes they have a salsa night. I'm actually pretty good at salsa dancing. What can be better for escalation than one of the most seductive dance styles?
Those are the pros. The cons involved with bringing a girl to a club are obvious, but like I said I'm 100% confident in myself. What's your opinion on that? I personally think I take her there we get dancing she'll be into it we'll have a good time, and escalation should be easy.


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