Hey y'all

Been gaming this girl, went out with her once, escalated, didn't close, text and facebook chat frequently. Saw her today (she works at the coffee shop I go to everyday and we usually chat for a bit) and she said a colegue of mine asked her and another waitress to go to the club later today. As he said, he's going with his friends and doesn't want to spend the night in an all-guy group.

My colegue said he would stay out of my way because he is engaged, but I don't trust that two faced bastard for shit. Also, the girl told me once she is not interested in him.

The other waitress is not going, my target is undecided but tending to decline.

Going with her is not an option, I was banned from that club because of a misunderstanding.

Is it a test? How do I play it?

Ignore it. You are too cool to care about this kind of shit. However, it is not a great sign that you didn't close and she is going out with some other dudes and rubbing it in your face. Though, it does seem like they aer going as friends.

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What is the question here? She goes to a club where you can't go. So you won't. You ask her out somewhere which isn't a club. What your college does to her is not your business.

It's not as if she is rubbing it. The dude started to get friendly, but he uses a silver wedding ring, so she asked me what was his deal. Later, I told her she could "forget about him, because not only he has a girlfriend, they are engaged". That was when she said she was not interested in him. Since then, she sometimes coments on stuff the guy does (like this), usually on the "he has a girlfriend, wtf does he want" tone.

I didn't close because the other waitress went with us. I work at an event planning company (on the same building where the coffee shop is), scored a few free tickets to a concert and took her both with me.

My target flaked on me once already, it was before the concert, and I belive she had a valid reason. Do you think another "group hangout" with both of them would reduce the chance of her flaking, or should I just go for the 1 on 1 next weekend?

Are you trying to reduce chances of flaking or getting the girl? Go for one on one, but now with more info it sounds like she isn't interested. (Talking more about that other guy than initially indicated, flaked on you already, etc.)

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Lol do you have friends man?

You're making a deal out of something that isn't a deal at all. If he tries to pull her so what? Theres a lot more value in friendships that most relationships with women. But I'd trust any man on his word the first time around; if he breaks my trust thats that. But the attitude you're showing is no way to attract positive people in your life.

Maybe the dude could even plant a few bugs in her ear and help you out. Bros over hoes man.

Peace & Love

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