How many sets did you open before feeling a good flow?



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PostPosted: Mon Nov 04, 2013 10:49 pm 
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Hey,
How many sets tid you open before starting to feel a good flow in the game?

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PostPosted: Mon Nov 04, 2013 10:59 pm 
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Are you talking about overall or in a night? No matter how good you get, you're going to have to get yourself "flowing" each time you go out. Look at a professional body builder... When they go to the gym, they get warmed up.... They don't go straight for the heavy weights.


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PostPosted: Tue Nov 05, 2013 2:18 am 
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Sometimes I can knock-out the first set I see and F-close, but usually about takes about 3 or 4 opens before im really underway.

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PostPosted: Tue Nov 05, 2013 2:21 am 
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Oh wait read that wrong.

Hmm overall, er I dunno, 100 maybe.

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PostPosted: Tue Nov 05, 2013 5:36 pm 
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Oh wait read that wrong.

Hmm overall, er I dunno, 100 maybe.

Agreed! I would say every night I go out I need to open 1-3 sets to feel good, and usually 2-5 to have success (kiss close on the night and then keep the game going).

That been said, I never lost my approach anxiety. So the first sets I open each night are never easy (just the first words are difficult). I have a few openers that have been successful, but the real good ones are the ones I make up in the moment (with something related to the context) - but for these ones I usually need a few beers before :D

One thing that helped me a lot in being less anxious and more confident was to fuck more women (oh what an insight!). After you have banged a few 9+, it becomes much more easy to approach beautiful women. Last advice: newbie drills. Every time I lose a lit bit of confidence, I go out 4 days in the same week. It always works to meet 1-3 great women....

Best of luck. The fear never goes away, but the confidence of victory increases greatly.

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This is going to be different from everyone, but what I usually notice with the men I coach is.. After one solid interaction; they're usually all set and ready to go.

Now it could take anywhere from 1-billion before you get a solid one.. It all depends on how far you are on your journey.

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